In general, it doesn't bother me too much. I'm a virgin, so what? I'm only 16, & only just legal (not that that tends to matter these days).
However, y'know what Secondary School can be like sometimes.
I'm not really too fussed about waiting for it to be the right person, but I'm not going to go and have sex with anyone just to lose my virginity and would like to be in a relationship of some sort first - well, so I'd like to think.
Em, your time will come. I'm sure there are more virgins around you than you realise. x
I was a month shy of 17 when I lost mine, I'd been seeing the guy for 3 months. 3.5 years later I'm still with him, so I feel I made the right choice- no regrets :)
While the sex wasn't amazing (hurt like a bitch, so it was hard to enjoy) the experience was. It was the totally cliched candlelit, rosepetals, flowers, soft music and all that stuff that hardly anyone gets. And it was perfect. So yeah, woo.
Wake me up before I change again
Remind me the story that I won't get insane
Tell me why it's always the same
Explain me the reason why I'm so much in pain.
three days after my 16th birthday.
at the time I didn't regret it then I started to regret it after the dude and I broke up but now that I look back on it, :] it was very sweet and innocent.
I keep waiting for you to say these words to me; I was wrong, self destruction's got me again. I was wrong, I realize now that I was wrong. I was wrong, yeah, I was wrong.
I was 17, I used to walk past this guy on the way to school everyday since i was about 13 (he was 14/15) and we ended up hanging out with the same group of friends on saturdays, we both liked each other for years but never shown it, he told me he loved me before we even got together, thats when i knew he would be the "one" to loose my virginity to, but at the time he didn't know i was a virgin, i didn't tell him until after because i wanted him to enjoy it more than me lol. no regrets at all! the only thing i "would" regret is the fact i dont fancy/love him the way i used to.
x
just after my 16th, we had been together bout 6 months, and we still are nearly 2 years later!
we were both virgins.
it was a starange experience but i guess 1st time is!
My hero wears Combat boots and Camos!
I love that boy!! xxxxx
People walk in and out of our lives everyday, But those special people leave footprints in our hearts and minds.
15, Christmas Eve last year. It was with my current boyfriend and he was so so sweet and gentle and nice, it hurt like a motherbitch though. He wasn't a virgin, he's 18 and 3 years my senior, but it was really special and I don't regret it at all :)
x
If you love me, won't you let me know.
We saw you in distraction; a sleeping, slow despair.
i was 16 yeah im still 16 nearly 17 but i lost it in like june last year and since then ive had sex with several different people. i suppose it doesnt really matter when you lose your virginity as long as you feel it was with the right person. im glad i waited for the person i did it with because i have no regrets about it at all.
i was only with him for like 2 days but i was drunk at the time and i remember all of it, yeah it may sound like he took advantage but he didnt. it happened on a beach it was so cool i ended up being with him for 6 months after it was a very good relationship. it didnt hurt having sex for the first time for me but i suppose that was because i was drunk but it didnt hurt the time after that at all but you know i suppose it hurts some and not others.
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I'm 20 and I still havent lost mine. i'd like to though. the problem is that i cant even get a tampon in so I have no idea how i'm supposed to have sex.
Anyone got any tampon tips?
I'm 20 and I still havent lost mine. i'd like to though. the problem is that i cant even get a tampon in so I have no idea how i'm supposed to have sex.
Anyone got any tampon tips?
Put a little KY on the outside?
I don't know... I have no tampon tips... as for general 'up the lady hole' tips - experiment, init. =]
Lol, I'm not sure if I have posted in here before and I can't be arsed to check. I am 19 and still haven't lost my V plates, don't mind about that really, I'm glad I haven't. I would like to though there is this guy I wanna lose it to. We have talked about it and it'll be soon we think.
I'm just nervous as to what to do lol, it's like, ok so where does that go? JOKES! lol. I am looking 4 ward 2 it though, HAHAHA!
Kangraoo - haha that reminds me of when I was in hospital and we wanted to go swimming but I was on my period and never used a tampon before and my best mate was outside the door giving me instructions as to how and where to put it in. 'Just find the hole and stick it right up there alyssa' OMG hahaha.
Try it in the bath or something? LoL
non-consensually I was about 6
consensually I was 17, with some random guy I'd not known for long. Tbh I just wanted to get it "out of the way" as such. No regrets though.
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
i was 11 when i lost mine ...! when i look back on it i wish i had waited not that i regret it or anything ...! i mean he was a great guy but i guees it would have been better if i waited but hey it wasnt painfull and i had been with him like 4 yrs n it lasted another 2 after that so i guesss i was alright ....!