Support means different things to different people. I find it helps me just to be distracted by general conversation in chat. I don't feel like it would help my MH to read through the piles and piles of threads that people make wanting support. We're all here for different reasons. Nobody has an obligation to support any other person here and although it would be ideal if every person felt up to it some don't. As for cliques. There are a large group of people. some of us have known each other for years. They are going to be friendlier to each other and if a new member doesn't join in to the conversation in chat then it's hard to get to know them. Scary as it is we can't help you if you want jump in and help yourself. We were all new once. Everybody had to do it.
