You would've had to take your glove off for an ecg,which you would've had to have if you went in with a heart complaint.
Either way,you were at a hospital,you had "4" hours of opportunity to talk to someone about what's going on in your life and what's bothering you.
You could've got some adult/professional help.
I have a fantastic idea. Instead of trying to get through to her or saying how this thread should be closed, why doesn't everybody just stop replying? Can't get frustrated at something you ignore people.....
Excuse me?
Why is this thread not closed.
People are going to start getting nasty if the threads not closed as you are frustrating the hell out of us.
PS minimum time in the A and E is four hours.
Im too tired to listen.
Im too old to believe
All these childish stories
There is no such thing as Faith&Trust&Pixiedust
Happiness can be found in the darkest of places.
If only one remembers to to turn on the light.
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I would re-iterate what has already said about not becoming upset by this thread. Please, please don't let yourselves become upset because, ultimately, it is Ashlee's choice and responsibility in how she chooses to use and respond to the support that she's been given. You are clearly all outstanding people for supporting so brilliantly and please remember that. If anybody does need a place to talk or any support, my PM box is open and also, you can email the RYL Supporters on support@recoveryourlife.com. Your emails will be treated with non-judgementalism, confidentiality and a response will be sent out within 24/48 hours, depending upon how busy things are.
Take care of yourselves.
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
I'm confused either way really - if you did indeed go to hospital, why not take advantage of the brilliant services there and seek help for your SH and anorexia?
If you didn't, why lie to us? I don't like it, I don't understand what the point of lying to us is.
I'm confused either way really - if you did indeed go to hospital, why not take advantage of the brilliant services there and seek help for your SH and anorexia?
i just didnt
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
How old are you? If your younger than 16 your parents/careers would have been informed about your heart. The doctor would have seen your self harm marks and asked you about them. He probably commented in your weight or blood pressure. And why did you drink an energy drink if you have a heart problem?
Im too tired to listen.
Im too old to believe
All these childish stories
There is no such thing as Faith&Trust&Pixiedust
Happiness can be found in the darkest of places.
If only one remembers to to turn on the light.
How old are you? If your younger than 16 your parents/careers would have been informed about your heart. The doctor would have seen your self harm marks and asked you about them. He probably commented in your weight or blood pressure. And why did you drink an energy drink if you have a heart problem?
She's 15 but if I'm honest I wouldn't be inclined to believe anything she says right now
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How old are you? - 15
If your younger than 16 your parents/careers would have been informed about your heart. - they know about it, my mum took me
The doctor would have seen your self harm marks and asked you about them. - not really, i hide them
He probably commented in your weight or blood pressure. why would he comment on my weight when i havent relaped latley
And why did you drink an energy drink if you have a heart problem? i wanted to do alot more dammage
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Ashlee, if you were in for a heart condition how on earth did you hide them? The sort of tests they'd have to do to monitor you and check you over surely wouldn't allow you to keep the self harm marks covered
Last edited by RenewedHope : 29-01-2013 at 10:24 PM.
Reason: got my words mixed up
I had a heart trace the other day and had to take my top off and had loads of tiny stickers all over me (including arms) so I don't know how you'd hide it!
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Ashlee I'll ask one more time giving you the benefit of the doubt, can you get your sister to help you tell an adult to get the help that you need. If she was here she obviously knows about your problems and could be a great source of support in getting you the help that you need. The fact that you and she have ignored my other posts suggesting this kinda show me your not interested in changing and lead me to believe she isn't real. If she was real she would want to help you and keep you safe. And why Wont you respond abbot her is it because of that as well. This is my last attempt, I think if your sister is real she could be a real help to you. If I don't get any sort of response I'm just gonna assume the whole sister thing was a lie, which would mean the hospital as well was probably one. I want to believe you Ashlee but you make it hard, please show me that you aren't lying and that you want help.
Is there some meaning to this life?What purpose lies behind the strife?
Whence do we come, where are we bound? These cold questions echo and resound through each day, each lonely night.
We long to find the splendid light that will cast a revelatory beam
upon the meaning of the human dream.
If you ever need anything I am only a message away
Also if you drank the energy drink to harm yourself, knowing it would cause issues with your heart, the doctors would have seen this as a psychiatric issue surely?
What did the doctors actually do when you went in to when you got out?
they used the finger beep heart thing and checked my blood presuer
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Ashlee I'll ask one more time giving you the benefit of the doubt, can you get your sister to help you tell an adult to get the help that you need. If she was here she obviously knows about your problems and could be a great source of support in getting you the help that you need. The fact that you and she have ignored my other posts suggesting this kinda show me your not interested in changing and lead me to believe she isn't real. If she was real she would want to help you and keep you safe. And why Wont you respond abbot her is it because of that as well. This is my last attempt, I think if your sister is real she could be a real help to you. If I don't get any sort of response I'm just gonna assume the whole sister thing was a lie, which would mean the hospital as well was probably one. I want to believe you Ashlee but you make it hard, please show me that you aren't lying and that you want help.
i dont care what u think
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.