Hey shadow,
Hugs i hear you about wanting to jump off a bridge, wanting to die to escape, please hold on a little while longer. I know you will be scared but shadow
right now you really
NEED TO GET Professional help,tell your parents get them to get you help,
get someone to take you to A&E to seek support from a professional
talk to the samaritans.
we all care about you shadow , we are supporting you and that will not stop.
But friend there is only so much we can do for you, the rest is up to you
you have to be the one to reach out and get professional help, while your
in this frightening place.
Please dont think that you dont count and dont think that you dont deserve to be supported beacuse YOU DO.
shadow right now you say you cant carry on that you dont know how much more you can take, this is the time where you reach out to others
close to you, and tell them how you feel that you cant carry on much longer. Then they will be there to support you and help you.
you need to tell someone and let then get you professional help , they can help you get through this mate.
your not being selfish by coming on here and telling us how bad you feel you have that right to express yourself and get the support you need.
but shadow the rest is up to you YOU must tell your parents, tell someone how bad you feel and that your struggling to cope.
get someone to take you to A & E and speak to someone there right now.
please try and find that strength inside and keep hold of some hope you can overcome this but you need someone close to get you the help you need.
If youve done something to yourself and your in pain all the more reason to go to A & E.
be safe mate
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
With all due respect i can understand you wanting me to go to a&e but im not going to because it doesnt matter it l heal up anyway and there is no point mentioning it to my counseller cos id be wasting here time. It doesnt matter anyway.
Shadow/Ian idk you've never told em to sue ro real name..
I've seen you on chats before and talked to you a bit
You don't really know me that well at all but I'm here to help i know feelings like these are hard to shoo away hard to deal with hard to have at all and all you want to do is jump all you wnat to do is kill yourself but hun that isn't the way to do it i swear
People will miss you so much you are nto better dead and you will be missed make so many people sad ebcuz you aren't with them anymore
We were given lives to live not to take away give life a chance hun i know this sound stupid but try to get this thoguht in your head and block out the others even though sometimes it seems like nothing good will happen
It will but you have to wait life will gte better if you let it take its course
-stef xxx
Shadow,
We are here to support you, but its down to you to take the support and go to A&E or seek further help by a professional. If you dont then thats your choice. You say it doesnt matter but shadow it does , we wouldnt be supporting you if we didnt care about you ,and its never a waste of time telling your counsellor. If you arnt honest with the counsellor how can they help you properly.
We wanted you to seek medical attention as we were worried what your od would do to you, you dont know if taking an overdose will seriously damage your health , without professional help you wont know.
It does allways matter to us taking an overdose is a serious risk and you want support, shadow if you choose not to get medical support when youve taken an od then its down to you.
But we can only do so much mate
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
With all due respect i can understand you wanting me to go to a&e but im not going to because it doesnt matter it l heal up anyway and there is no point mentioning it to my counseller cos id be wasting here time. It doesnt matter anyway.
What do you mean that you 'heal up anyway'? I hope you actually understand the damage you're doing to your insides.
I did a bad thing today i havent harmed or anything like that but when i burnt myself my arm got very swollen my mum knows but.... i dont know whether i can bring myself to say it.
Shadow,
Hey im sorry you had to burn yourself, mate, please take care of it, check out the first aid forum , to see if it requires medical help, for how to care for it. If your mum knows has she looked after it or if its bad enough you should seek medical help.
Shadow you can say whatever you need to here , we will listen but remember mate we can only do so much , if your hurting yourself seriously enough to risk your life we want you to get professional help.
as all we can do is offer you support and understanding that will not change, but mate you are the only one who can get the help.
Take care mate
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
Shadow ,
You may have had your reasons for not telling your mum about the burn, but if you need it looking after then it would be worth telling her. Have you looked on first aid forum for advice about the burn.
look after yourself mate
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
Im not coping i feel like giving up iv still been collecting pills aswell. I just wanna die. I keep thinking what to do next. Dont know which way is best. A way i suffer from excruciating pain or where i die just like that. I know all ways of dieing are painful but i mean there are ways that are not as painful.
Shadow mate,
I hear you about not coping, and wanting to give up, the best way right now is to talk to someone a counsellor if you have one, your parents so they can get you help, or the A&E department to see a dr or psych. I know you feel like dying right now, but the the best thing you can do is talk to someone to get you the support you need.
please do this mate you need to be supported
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
Like Dave said (Again) We can offer you support and advice, but we can't stop you from doing anything or help you go to a doctor. So our advice is all we can give. You need to do it for you.
We're just going round in circles, the harsh truth is, is that we have done what we can, the ball is in your court. I hope you make the right choice, you've got so much to live for.
On a long enough time line, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero.
there must be part of you that doesnt want to die ian, you need to concentrate on that part of you.
please you need to make sure that people around you know whats going on in your head because they are the oes that can help you. we can help to a certain extent but we arent with you physically so you need to tell the people who are.
if you dont feel comfortable talking to your mum can you talk to your brother or a proffesional?
if you are not willing to take all the pills at the same time because your mum will find out, you obvously dont want to hurt her but either way if you do it over time or all at once you WILL hurt her and she will find out.
please ian youve got to try, im not saying its easy but you need to try!
please be safe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Well i speak to this girl that i really like and i had collected loads of pills but i thought of her and then i got rid of them all. I put them all down the sink.
of course you're bound to at first, maybe even for a while, but every day you go without them, you're a step more on the road to recovery, and as each day goes past it'll get easier :)
I hope you get the help you deserve.
