mentally i still consider myself a virgin, though technically im not.
so technically lost it when i was child [sexual abuse].
but i still class myself as a virgin. [im 19 now]
i don't think i'll be ready, ever. lots of mental scars and blocks. if i do, it'll be because i feel obligated to..? and i intend on being wedded when i do.
Last edited by privileged-outcast : 07-03-2008 at 12:23 AM.
Reason: adding age
i don't think the age really matters although. as soon as you leave secondary school no one gives a **** anymore about other peoples sex-lives/virginity-losing.
i hated my school so much because everyone was so ****ing obsessed with sex and virginity and all that crap.
i ended up doing it with some random person who i didn't even like that much. boo hoo.
/tangent.
I'm 18, and still a virgin.
I don't know, I'm looking forward to it, but only if it's "right"...whatever that means.
I'd really rather wait until I'm married.
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I was 18. Still am 18. actually only lost it like 2 months ago haha. but i did wait for that someone. i wanted it to be with someone i actually loved and cared about and who loved me too etc. so i dont regret it at all :)
I havent yet and im 17!im just waiting for the right moment, although im not so ready and not that interested!
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I was JUST 17 (literally two days after my birthday!), and it was with my now fiance, but at the time we'd only been together one month. I just could not wait any longer, lol. I didn't love him then, but a couple months later we were totally twitterpated!
i am 17 and a virgin. i am okay with it too. i am waiting for the right person, and prob marrige. =]
but i think you should do it when your 100% ready and no sooner.
but your not alone and its totally okay to be a virgin no matter what people say.
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Technicaly I'm not a virgin, I was raped whan I was 14, and ended up needing an abortion, but no one knows about that, so I kind of kid myself it didn't count.
I havn't ever had a boyfriend, and even if I did I'd have to wait untill I was 100% shure it was the right time/place etc. because of my past. I know quite a lot of 18/19 year olds who are proud to be virgins (Boys and girls) so don't worry about it.
Just wait untill you feel like your ready. If you think you're ready and do it, but regret it later, it's just a opitunity to learn from your mistakes, and have a happuer future!
Good luck with uni x
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I tear my heart open just to feel.
I'm almost 18, still a virgin...never even had a boyfriend or been kissed. plan to remain a virgin till marriage, though that may change if I meet someone that special...but either way I don't plan to give it up easily.
OLD thread.
But still, i'm sure you're at uni now and things might've changed or what not, but still just wait till your ready.
Wasn't great.
But luckily I had a good first kiss.
One of the two isn't bad.
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I know this is a well old thread but I don't care.
I'm quoting anyway.
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Originally Posted by Strawberry-Gashes
Its overrated anyways!
It makes me sad when people say that =[
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Originally Posted by ickle-duckling
Part of me wants it over and done with so that it's not such a big deal and the other half thinks that I should wait like a sensible person!
Waiting doesn't necessarily make you a sensible person... to be honest whether you wait or not it's likely to be uncomfortable and unlikely to be pleasurable.
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Originally Posted by ceapach
if you do and you have straight sex, i hear it will hurt regardless.
Yeah, seriously.
Less about waiting for the 'right person'. More about waiting until you're horny enough for it not to PAIN you.
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Originally Posted by Tears and Rain
Wasn't great.
But luckily I had a good first kiss.
One of the two isn't bad.
Same xD
I lost it on my 16th birthday.
It wasn't strictly consensual but I ended up having a two and a half year relationship with the person I lost it too. We ended up having some amazing sex.
Basically, sex your first time will hurt. UNLESS you're incredibly wet or have mastered the art of the sex toy.
Sex can be amazing with someone you care about, but also with a one night stand. It can be sh*t with both too.
Basically, don't rely on the other person to make it good! They're just an extra in the process. I'm talking about first times here, not in general.
Consenting with a guy at 18
With a woman at 23 and never looking back!
Women all the way thank you very much!
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i'm tired of chasing my dreams. i'm just gonna ask where they're going, and hook up with them later.
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mmm...I was 7.
but it wasn't my choice.
and it hurt like ****.
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I still am a virgin, altough all my friends don't believe that because of the relationship I had with my first love. Yea, I wanted it to be special and I just haven't found the right person yet. Plus, they say I don't act like a virgin. I'm not ashamed of it, I'm proud of myself for having that kind of respect for myself.
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