I know, you are right. She seems very happy today. She wore herself out screaming in the hospital so she slept really well and today she has been awake and alert a lot which has been nice.
You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
Mrs Pixie:Aw poor poppy, i hope that she is better now. Does she have asthma or was it an infection or something?
My anxiety is not good today. I was waiting for the bus the other day and some guys drove past shouting 'fat b*tch' :( It doesnt happen often but it really knocked my confidence. I'm struggling as it is with my changing body. I live in a rough area and people can be nasty and just randomly shout stuff, but im the quiet type and just ignore them.
Then my babys dad collared me at the bus stop (were not together). He had the cheek to try touch my bump (he's not bothered with my pregnancy) and ask for a kiss. All he seems bothered about is us getting back together. Iv said for him not to contact me unless its about the baby but he doesnt seem bothered and doesnt ask about scans or owt. He acted like nothing has happened and tried twisting stuff on me again. I just really dont need the stress of bumping into him all the time (we live on the same street). Sorry for the slight rant but tad stressed out atm :(
When i was struggling to get a latch the midwies were useless, they didn't come when you pressed the button, when they did they declared the latch correct even when i said it felt like I had hot needles being stabbed into me, they didn't know any other positions to help me try, they wouldn't discharge me so i could get in touch ith the lactation consultants (attached to the community midwifery team) it was so ridiculous. Chloe went from 2pm ttil 9am with only 2 failed feedings, woke up and screamed the place down, we then expressed and dropper ffed her a bit but she still couldn't latch. By this time she'd got jaundice so we had to stay in even longer .
Mand, South Wales, Full-time working, single mother to 2 scarily independent girls.
I AM A PROUD PLUMERIA SISTER
Why wouldn't they take it serious?
They have to take all complaints seriously and deal with them appropriately.
Just based on past experiences that's all. And he hasn't actually touched me or been verbally abusive. He is just pestering me and acting inappropriate. I have my 1st scan on the 30th of May debating whether to invite him to it (he hasnt asked about scans ect) and he may just use it as an excuse to try worm his way back in. I feel torn atm coz i want him to be involved (altho he doesnt seem bothered) but at the same time i wanna have a stress free pregnancy without him pestering me to get back with him and him constantly putting me down :(
Acting inappropriate and pestering is a form of harassment and id be inclined to have it at least noted. If you want him at the scans then ask him. That way he has the choice and its his choice. You have to think of the future when baby bump is older and asking questions of what you would like to be able to tell him/her about why the father isnt around if it happens that he isnt.
i sent him a letter yest inviting him to the scan and he came round today thanking me for inviting him and that he wants to come. I'm not holding my breathe but least iv give him the chance.
We have to go to the high court and he is trying to be added as a party to have contact and if its decided I'm unfit he wants custody and people want me to move away I'm literally can't believe he's done this he was a stranger I didn't know him I was happy all I wanted/want is my son and my GF x
Have you got a legal team working with you on this? Might be helpful to speak to them to find out what/if there is anything you can do to strengthen your defence and what the likely outcome is so you can prepare yourself.
Do you believe you are unfit?
I have my solicitor but she says it could go either way I
Can take
Care of my son and I'm proving that in this unit although there's still changes to be made x
Dont let the court case ruin the food work you are doing. There will be people able to back up what a good job you are doing? Hopefully it wont come to custody being removed from you completely as it sounds like you are doing things right and "proving" yourself. I do know courts do try to keep mothers with their children where possible.
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