If u want the Rainbow,u gotta put up with the Rain
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: London
I am currently:
On Friday night I decided I was definately a lesbian, tonight I think I may well in fact be bisexual, thus I think I should give up trying to decide cos more likely than not by Saturday what with it being London Pride I will have decided im a lesbian again. Therefore I officially give up trying to decide as im probably never gonna be sure so long as i live!
I refused to be put into a label for three years because nothing fit. I was too open minded about other people and their genders. I am completely gender blind that even Bisexuality was too open minded for me.
Then, my current girl friend informed me of "Pansexuality"
The main gender of this is well, gender blind. haha
i think love is merely related to what is inside a person, their inner beauty.
it doesn't matter what gender, race, age they are.
love is love. & you can't really label that.
"Life can be found only in the present moment. The past is gone, the future is not yet here, and if we do not go back to ourselves in the present moment, we cannot be in touch with life."
maybe dont worry about deciding for definite what your sexuality is, just spend time with people whos company you enjoy, everything will fall into place, if people ask you if you're gay or straight you can answer them if u want to, or you can choose not to answer, think about if ur trying to decide what your sexuality is for you or for others, have confidence in yourself and know that you are unique and you dont have to explain yourself to anyone, be attracted to someone physically mentally or both, either is ok, be free and dont be bound by labels - live for love XxX
I've gone back and forth over the years, but finally decided to just abandon the whole labeling thing altogether...seems kinda pointless. Yes, I do find women attractive, but I find it much easier to be in any sort of relationship with men because women can be so damn emotional and dramatic (yeah, I know I am...two of me in a relationship would be a disaster)...whereas with men things just seem more straightforward to me...Heck, I even prefer to have guys over girls as friends
I've always been attracted to men, and men only. Women just don't turn me on the same way. Men in uniform especially! It's very hard in my house trying to defend my very "straight" sexuality when your brothers are gay and convinced that since you don't date at all, you must be lesbian....
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