Trying for a baby & BPD

[Sunshine]

Eep good luck..try not to get your hopes up. Then if you aren't it isn't too bad and if you are then it's even better news!! :)

[in_BPD_hell]

I know... You know what it's like tho!!! Easier said than done! I do think my periods on it's way so I know I'll be set up to fail. Just need to keep myself safe and sane over this week

[Sunshine]

I was just about to ask are there any period signs yet? If you arnt it will be so soo crushingly horrible but you can get through it! It's so fustrating that you get **** news and then you have the horrible emotions and grossness of bleeding! I mean what a ****ed up way for nature to treat us! It makes the week horrible but then as soon the week is over you get to start trying again! I don't even know what could help just know how horrible it is!


Bbuuut my fingers and toes are crossed and I'll plait my hair as well! ;)
X

[in_BPD_hell]

Cheers!!!
No signs as yet - due Wednesday so... A few more days to go.
No pain yet which I usually get so that's a positive
I've got a sore throat and feel a bit run down but otherwise all is ok

[Tig]

Good luck! Wishing you baby dust

[in_BPD_hell]

Oooh good luck baby dust to you too.... Just one more day but I think it's a no... Getting cramps! Xx
Tww is sooooooo tough - how long you been trying for?

[in_BPD_hell]

So... No sign as yet today

[in_BPD_hell]

Still no sign x

[Tig]

2 days late sounds pretty promising! Have you got a test you can take? Good luck :)

[in_BPD_hell]

Hi thanks

Yep I've been through the poking and prodding - so has my husband. We got told we couldn't have them naturally because my husbands sperm were all dead... But then they told us that that was a mistake and they were fine, so we went through months of upset etc. however, there are lots of things they can do these days. We've been told to try until next February and then consider ivf... But I must remain 'mentally well' in this time!!!

I'm sooooo hoping I'm pregnant but I have a feeling I'm not. I haven't got a test yet was going to pop out today but not sure if I'm testing too early or I should wait until next weekend?

Hoes your tWW going!?
Xx

[Tig]

If you are 2/3 days late and are over 14 days past ovulation, testing should be accurate (most of the time), especially things like FRER. I'd say avoid clear blue digi for another week though because they are slightly less sensitive.

Ah yes, I have the mentally healthy thing too which I find is fair enough and helps me to keep focused! Must be frustrating though waiting until February.

[in_BPD_hell]

so I started my period late last night... I had a pretty crappy day yesterday too... so all in all not a good day.

Fingers crossed for you xx

[Tig]

I'm sorry you started your period & had a difficult day. If you want to talk about it, I'm here or you can PM me <3 xx

[in_BPD_hell]

Thank you. I really appreciate that.
I wish there was a way I could say to work 'I'm feeling low at the moment can I have a few days off' but it's not an option

[Tig]

That must be very difficult - would it be an option to have one sick day at least, although I know sometimes it can be just as bad as a few in terms of sickness record.