I wish that I had a boyfriend. I haven't had one for 6 years. I miss the closeness and all that stuff. Sharing your life with someone and them sharing theirs with me too. It may mean nothing to some of you and thats cool, that is your porogative but I'm lonely and I'm 30 next year which terrifies me and I see me wasting my life.
I've even been speed dating 3 times.
Sorry, sentimental crap to most of you I guess, sorry
GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE
THE COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN
AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE
I am going to be single this year too. Le woe.
I've only really been single since early January but I have already faced the fact that I will be forever alone. I would love to not be forever alone but it seems like I probably will so I might as well face up to it.
Apply here to stop me being foever alone with your reasons why it would work and what things you can cook and how good you are at cleaning. It might also be a good idea to say what you like doing or some sh*t. (Let's face it, you will always be in the kitchen anyway...[JOKES]) Penis wielders need not apply. (Unless you keep you dick in a box when not using it.)
RetardYourLife has become RecoverYourLover once again. Accident!
The world is just illusion always trying to change me.
You will find wonder wherever you can, and spread joy whenever you are able.
I felt emotions of gentleness and pleasure, that had long appeared dead, divide within me. - Frankenstein.
SOMEONE GIVE ME CUDDLES DAMNIT.
and giant clothes to sleep in >:(
*GIVES AMY CUDDLES!!!* I'll give you them properly when I see you <3
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Originally Posted by Bigmike
I'm entering 2012 forever alone too!...it's because we are just too cool for boyfriends and girlfriends!
that's what you tell yourself Mike... you're just too special,
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Originally Posted by Pi.R^2
But woe-ing always makes things better!
I am pretty non-pro-active in my forever aloneness, mainly because I am le scared, and because at least this way my parents don't have to know that I'm gay.
Also, whilst watching love actually, I was known to claim I didn't understand what was so great about being in love, "I'd rather have a pizza tbh", so yeah, I'm not exactly the greatest romantic of all time :p
Jenna, this is why I love you! <3
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Originally Posted by Bleeding Angel
hardly going to be the end of the world if your single next year......oh wait......
this made me proper lol
Also I shall too be forever alone, this makes me greatly sad I can't wait for the day I meat mr/mrs right... if it ever comes along! Been single for the past 2 months, but that relationship was a complete and utter train wreck... bring on a good one for a change
I remember the time I got reminded that this was a support site not a dating site! I was pissed off at the time because I felt i hadn't been understood but now it makes me laugh!
RecoverYourLovelife! ryll How about that?!!
GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE
THE COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN
AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE
Single but I love it, I've tried the whole 'relationship' thing, it just doesn't work out. I like to look after myself, not want to talk to people and not be forced to see someone when I'm not in the mood with seeing anyone, not having constant text messages and phone calls and just having my phone for emergencies and when communication has to happen. Don't get me wrong, I love some snuggles now and again but, yeah, I am defintely a 'now and again' girl, but I guess you could say, I'm too much in love with my own life and independance to be tied down like a ball and chain.
Also for all you singletons that want an easy read i've just read 'the single girls to do list' by Lindsey Klek, definitely a pick me up and a kind of confidence injector.
Life can be beautiful if you let it.
Step back, breathe and take it in
Shall also be entering 2012 single. Sometimes it doesn't bother me being single, other times it does. Who knows, maybe 2012 will be the year I fall head over boobs in love. I said that last year. And the year before that. And the year before that and so on.
i hate being alone and I hate that its so hard to do anything about it
Don't be fooled by my smooth skin. The deepest scars are the ones unseen.
Remember compliments you received, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how..~ Baz Lurhman.
Letting it get to you - You know what that's called? Being alive. Best thing there is. Being alive right now that's all that counts. ~ Doctor Who "The Doctors Wife" 06.November.2011
Are you looking for friends, or for a relationship? Few people who go out looking for something to happen manage it. Go somewhere and socialise and see what happens from there.
As for where, well, hobby and/or sports clubs? Book clubs? Film clubs? Lots of towns and cities now have 'activity groups' and such like for people looking to try different things.
I hate being so lonely. I hate that it's so hard to do anything about it. It sounds so simple, just go up to a person and strike up a friendly conversation, but when it actually comes down to doing it I just clam up and slink away and don't say a word and try to not look at anyone. It becomes the most difficult and most terrifying thing I could ever think of doing.
If someone suddenly collapsed from a heart attack and I had to administer the cpr until the ambulance arrived I would be more at ease than trying to strike up a conversation with a stranger.
Don't be fooled by my smooth skin. The deepest scars are the ones unseen.
Remember compliments you received, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how..~ Baz Lurhman.
Letting it get to you - You know what that's called? Being alive. Best thing there is. Being alive right now that's all that counts. ~ Doctor Who "The Doctors Wife" 06.November.2011
Where I do therapy they're of the opinion that you basically have to do the things you're afraid of and keep doing them until they're not so threatening anymore. Maybe you could start off by having a quick chat to cashiers when you're in a shop? Just ask them a question about how their Christmas was, or about the weather... just to get you started on talking to strangers. Can definitely empathise with how scary and frightening it is though!
I can't wait for the day I meat mr/mrs right... if it ever comes along! Been single for the past 2 months, but that relationship was a complete and utter train wreck... bring on a good one for a change 
