I was 14,
I was very drunk. I don't know if I even consented. I regret it majorly.
Don't rush in to it. Really, you want to wait till you feel comfortable, not "just because"
I was a virgin (discounting any nonconsensual occasions) when i went to Uni. I came very close to sleeping with a guy there because i felt i needed to do it and get it out of the way. I didn't in the end... thankfully i had the 'time of the month' excuse, but i'm glad i didn't.
Although when i did decide to lose it, it wasn't anything wonderful physically, i'm very glad it was with someone who appreciated that it was something important for me, rather than 'just' sex. It wasn't love, but it was someone i trusted and who cared and understood my worries and i have no regrets now.
16.
was a silly silly thing to do.could've gone horribley horribley differently.i was extremely lucky.
i would say it taught me a lesson but everytime since has been pretty much the same.
the last time definately taught me a lesson though.
I roll over and hold on tightly, and whisper "If they want you, they're gonna have to fight me,"
I was 15. Just.
It was stupid, I was drunk and I didn't really know the guy. It was just nasty. It was ages ago really, so it doesn't bother me, but I would rather have waited.
I can understand where you're coming from, but maybe try not to see it as something to get out of the way. It's not something that really matters that much; no-one who's worth caring about is going to be bothered by it, and if it's fine with you, then that's great. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age, or any age actually. I know plently of people who are aiming to wait until they're married (mainly within the Christian community, but still), and I really look up to them for that.
Just, don't feel like it's something you 'have' to do. It's not that great anyway, and I would imagine it's better with someone you care about.
If I remember correctly, I was 12. And I haven't seen the girl since the camp it happened at was over. I don't regret it, but I never expected it to happen.
On the topic of virginity...i really don't care. I also don't think "waiting for the right moment" is a good way to lose it because you may never have that moment and if you do and you have straight sex, i hear it will hurt regardless.
Most of my friends irl don't know I'm not a virgin because I don't like discussing it because so much is placed upon whether some one is or not.
I lost mine at 3 if you count abuse but if you dont then i was married, but even then i didnt want to i just felt like i had to still do dont know if i will ever willingly want to though.
16 and to an ex who i was infatuated with.
big mistake
he then started calling on me every week (bear in mind it had been 2 years since i saw him til THAT day was halloween too) when i finally gave into him i got pregnant and had a v early miscarriage.
not good. wait until it's love nad not lust. mand x
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i was 14 and i dont have any real regrets or anything, it isnt a bad memory or a really good memory. i kind of wish i had waited and that it was special and with a person that i really knew and really cared about. i think that losing it can be really memorable and special, if you wait and know what you are doing and are mature enough to understand it and know what you are waiting for. i dont think i was.
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I'm 20, lost my virginity at 19 [not too long ago, my birthday was in June].
I can honestly say I don't regret it at all. It was the right time for me, and with definitely the right person. He's now my boyfriend-fiance, I kind of feel weird calling him my fiance, hah.
But yeah, for years I never had sex or did anything sexual with someone [other than kiss :3]. I'm glad I waited.
I lost it when I was 18, like halfway through my first year of college. It was nothing special. I'm 20 now and like half my friends are still virgins, so no worries if you haven't done it yet. Plenty of people wait!
im 22, hasent happened yet. i havent even had a bofriend or anything yet actully. dont really know how i feel about it. im not really asamed of it, but im not really proud of it eather.
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Originally Posted by romperfry
i was 13. No regrets, it was wonderful actually LOL!
Strawberry-gashes said:
Both. I was disappointed. Theres so much hype about sex.. i just think its overrated (personally!)
^^^ i actually find that really sad to read....witht the right person it is absolutely incredible ;o)
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I agree. Love and connection are so important to me for it to be great. I mean, he was the first guy I ever felt so connected with. And I had a two year relationship prior with no sex. Kinda proves how connected I have to be :P
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You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
and I believe I will be it for years more.. The abuse when I was a kid must have left it's marks in me and I can't really yet even consider losing my virginity.
i'm still a virgin, and im 19, i just dont think its something people should rush into or do as a spare of the moment thing. And if you're with the right person, it will be better than if you do it with some other random person just to "get it over with"
