Baby girl, Angel, beautiful, amazing Fiancee,
YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO DIE.
Please, please go back tomorrow & fight.
You need to get better.
I can't lose you.
& somewhere, somewhere inside of you, Helen doesn't want to die either.
The ED is scared now, because you're trying to fight back, KEEP trying, PLEASE.
I love you so much.
You know what I think, but please, please go back & get the help you need, deserve & somewhere inside want...
I love you.
No you don't. You don't at all. I wish you could see what a wonderful person you are Hel, you're so special and if anything happened to you we'd all be devastated.
I'm sorry I have no advice but if you want to talk then PM/FB me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.
xxxx
Recovery isn't going to make her perfect and it's not that easy. That was kind of rude to say.
I do think that she should try to talk more about the reasons that she doesn't want to recover, because people will be able to help more. But being rude about it certainly isn't going to help. Telling her how she's feeling isn't a big deal..that's just unnecessary.
There's a fine line between being blunt and truthful and just being rude.
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Hel, keep talking. Why do you think you deserve to die? You really don't. You're an amazing person. Please keep fighting.
I love you angel. Please talk to us. Talk to them when they call. I'm glad you were honest before but they want you back by Sat Morn, so please go then, or earlier if you can. Please.
Ill be calling them myself to talk to them, so I'll let you know what happens when it happens.
I love you so much.
I don't know you but can HONESTLY say that you don't deserve to die. Nobody does. Your ED is just telling you that and I agree with everyone else when they say to go back and beat the bitch. You'll be much happier. Keep talking hun. x
could you see this as a kind of experiment?? this is what iv done before: MY way doesnt work, iv decades of life to proove this; il try THEIR way for a week/month and see where it gets me. you have to trust them which is fking hard, but you need to look at your life so far and decide if you think youreally have the answer yourself.
write out a 10 minute by 10 minute schedule and try to drag yourself through. this would be easier if you were IP. i dont know how id ever have managed without IP support. i could never look after myself.
you need to learn to take care of 'little helen'.... treat yourself as though you're a little kid needing nurtuing.
Could we try to focus on Helen (and Sarah) rather than other posters who are probably just trying to help?
Helen, it's quite obvious that you need support, professional support. If you turn this down then you may not get any other chance. Think of what you can life for, who you can live for.
you dont deserve to die sweetie noone deserves to die
you deserve to be appy and free bt not to die to many people care for you and would stop u in any way possible lots people are behind u 100%
and love u dont give up please your sucha great person you really are
xxxxxx
young girl its alright your tears will soon dry your soon be free to fly
she's falling from grace , she's all over the place..............
it will take a lot of time to relearn how to live without your ed, and you shouldn't beat yourself up over "setbacks". wanting to get well and then not wanting to will come and go over the coming months. you'll get better at dealing with the times when you want to destroy yourself, and the good times will get more frequent. try to remember what you'd say to someone else in your situation...you'd give them love, support, understanding. try to find a little bit of that for you too.
I know you must be tired, and sad, and scared. But please go back and fight this, and use the rest of the admission that you have.
You can get your life back Helen, and as hard as it seems now, it is completely worth it.
Let your mum and family help you get back in there and get the support you, and they, need. They care about you very much Helen. Nobody wants to see you die.
You worked hard for this support, hard to get into hospital. Can you remember why you worked so hard? How terrible life was for you before this admission? Do you really want to throw it all away and go back to that?
Remember this, these are why you worked hard to get into hospital and why you need to work hard to stay there for the length of the admission, and keep up with your treatment:
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I defiantly, want this. I defiantly do not want to live like this forever
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Originally Posted by you
I will keep fighting, at least while I still can.
I know I can do this.
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I just want to get better, to LIVE
Remember that.
Life can be a good thing Helen, you've just gotta be around for it. You deserve to feel happiness.
Don't give up, you've come this far.
Please please listen to us, we care for you very much xxxx
Hunnie, you do not deserve to die, nobody does.
You want recovery deep down, please don't give up on it. Please go back to the hospital & keep trying. The progress you were making was great. You can do this Helen, I believe in you
xxx
Thank you everyone, I am so blessed to have such beautiful people in my life. Words cannot describe how much I love you, all of you.
I spoke to the hospital last night & they are calling 3 times today... They wanted me to come back today as they are 'very concerned' I made a compromise & said I'd come back tomorrow instead.... I'm going to go back. & I will stay until I get discharged.
I'm so proud of your decision.
You can get better. I have EVERY faith in you <3
"That is why, for Christ's sake,
I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships,
in persecutions, in difficulties.
For when I am weak, then I am strong"
(2 Corinthians 12:13)
Thank you everyone, I am so blessed to have such beautiful people in my life. Words cannot describe how much I love you, all of you.
I spoke to the hospital last night & they are calling 3 times today... They wanted me to come back today as they are 'very concerned' I made a compromise & said I'd come back tomorrow instead.... I'm going to go back. & I will stay until I get discharged.
Well done Angel, so so proud of you.
*holds*
I'll come visit you when you're settled down & I'll write to you & you make sure you take care of you & focus on you & cooperate, communicate & help yourself baby.
Recovery IS possible.
No matter how impossible it FEELS to come true, it WILL.
I believe in you.
I love you.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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