Contains Suicide - Posting for "I Miss You" Please help him.

[crazykat]

Thanks for sharing your song, it was beautiful and emotive but very sad. Do you think it would help you to write again? It may be a good way to get these difficult feelings out and to help provide some sort of release for you. What's making things so difficult for you at the moment? Hold on there, you can get through this

[Gem-Louise]

Drew I like the song ,it sounds very emotional and dark ,do you think it would help you to write a song that's not so dark so that your not just focusing on the bad thoughts and things but your also focusing on happy thoughts too ? maybe if you wrote a song that was you could sing it or something when you are feeling low ,maybe that way it will help you to lift your mood or something ? that might not be a good idea ,just thought it might help you

take care

[I Miss You]

its been so long
since i knew this girl
she was my everything

i still recall
her smile
how it hurts so bad
the day
she died
i dont know how to say goodbye

***CHORUS***

i miss you so much
more then words can say
i miss you so much
more then life itself
i miss you so much

i just wish
that you were here
i'll never be the same

all she ever wanted
was a freind
i knew i should have said
i love you
now i'll never have that chance

***REPEAT CHORUS***

i never thought that this would happen
i have been so lost without you
the only thing tha keeps me here
is you....

*repeat chorus*

dedicated to the loving memory of lisa wlicox
born: august 13,1993
died:april 1oth,2007

[in a bad way]

Hi

Thank you again. You really sound torn apart by this. Have you ever been to bereavement counselling? It can really help

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Originally Posted by Gem-Louise

do you think it would help you to write a song that's not so dark so that your not just focusing on the bad thoughts and things but your also focusing on happy thoughts too ?

I think this would be a good idea or like I said, it would be wonderful if you shared a happy sorry about this person.

It take it you were very close?

I found this for you. He wrote it after his wife committed suicide. It's very sad but I hope you take the hope from it too xxxxxxxx

Keep a fire burning in your eye
Pay attention to the open sky
You never know what will be coming down
I don't remember losing track of you
You were always dancing in and out of view
I must have thought you'd always be around

Always keeping things real by playing the clown
Now you're nowhere to be found

I don't know what happens when people die
Can't seem to grasp it as hard as I try
It's like a song I can hear playing right in my ear
That I can't sing, I can't help listening
And I can't help feeling stupid standing 'round
Crying as they ease you down
'Cause I know that you'd rather we were dancing

Dancing our sorrow away
Right on dancing
No matter what fate chooses to play
There's nothing you can do about it anyway

Just do the steps that you've been shown
By everyone you've ever known
Until the dance becomes your very own
No matter how close to yours another's steps have grown
In the end there is one dance you'll do alone

Keep a fire for the human race
Let your prayers go drifting into space
You never know what will be coming down
Perhaps a better world is drawing near
And just as easily it could all disappear
Along with whatever meaning you might have found

Don't let the uncertainty turn you around
The world keeps turning around and around
Go on and make a joyful sound

Into a dancer you have grown from a seed somebody else has thrown
Go on ahead and throw some seeds of your own
And somewhere between the time you arrive and the time you go
May lie a reason you were alive but you'll never know

JACKSON BROWNE - FOR A DANCER LYRICS

[nowhereman]

Drew I can't pm you for somereason, I hope you don't mean your last pm. I don't know what you want me to do? I can't cope.

[Snow White.]

Nikki hun Drew is banned at the moment, judging from his profile anyway, so that's maybe why you cannot PM him.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nikki

I don't know what you want me to do? I can't cope.

Please, please Nikki look after yourself, okay? You need to keep yourself okay and coping right now. Drew has all of us here when he returns so please don't shoulder all of it onto yourself. I hope you're okay <3 xxx

[pea soup]

For what it's worth, I have replied to your PM but you have them locked. Unlock them please. Someone needs you now!
Thank you!
xxxxxxxxxx

[talaiporia]

As Aimee pointed out, Drew can't reply right now as he's banned. His email is on his profile however.

[pea soup]

oh wow..I didn't know he was banned. Thanks. And sorry....xxxxx

[talaiporia]

It appears just below a users name in their custom-user-title.

I hope you guys are both okay.

[nowhereman]

Thank you Snow White. I hadn't realised he was banned. I hope he is getting the help he needs somewhere else for now. Also don't worry, I am fine, the Pms just got a bit intense and I was very worried.

i know this is going to sound really bad but here i go anyway verytime i come onto RYL drew has a thread going i get he needs support but the way he goes about it isnt effective... many of us have said he needs to get back into therapy otherwise this isnt going to hange and it is hurting other memebers of the site as he is always saying he is going to do something which snt fair we wouldnt accept it from friends n real life so why are we now.. he needs to get himself better with the help from professionals as we re not...


sorry if that sounds harsh i do emphasize with how he must be feeling but it just isnt fair

[Pomegranate]

Quote:

Originally Posted by youonlyliveonce

i know this is going to sound really bad but here i go anyway verytime i come onto RYL drew has a thread going i get he needs support but the way he goes about it isnt effective... many of us have said he needs to get back into therapy otherwise this isnt going to hange and it is hurting other memebers of the site as he is always saying he is going to do something which snt fair we wouldnt accept it from friends n real life so why are we now.. he needs to get himself better with the help from professionals as we re not...


sorry if that sounds harsh i do emphasize with how he must be feeling but it just isnt fair

[nowhereman]

Quote:

Originally Posted by youonlyliveonce

i know this is going to sound really bad but here i go anyway verytime i come onto RYL drew has a thread going i get he needs support but the way he goes about it isnt effective... many of us have said he needs to get back into therapy otherwise this isnt going to hange and it is hurting other memebers of the site as he is always saying he is going to do something which snt fair we wouldnt accept it from friends n real life so why are we now.. he needs to get himself better with the help from professionals as we re not...


sorry if that sounds harsh i do emphasize with how he must be feeling but it just isnt fair

To be honest I think this had to be said. I like you Drew but the constant goodbye Pms are very upsetting and not fair.

[pea soup]

I have gotten repeated "goodbye" PM's and it is very disturbing. I am very worried for him but at the same time he isn't getting help like everyone has suggested. I'm not in a place to deal with it. I tried really hard with him but I can't help someone who makes no effort to help themselves.

I'm sorry if this sounds so uncaring and harsh but it's just the truth. I will help him if he will help himself. Period.

Much love Drew.

[nowhereman]

Drew, it's only upsetting because I care. If I didn't care I wouldn't care. I know you're in a bad place right now and I can appreciate that but as said, you are going about it the wrong way. I really don't want to lose a friend to suicide, think of how I and others would feel if that happened. It would affect everyone on this site and everyone around you. There is only so much non professionals can do. We are dealing with our own stuff too. Please get help.