You don't need to keep posting "i was at fault but hey everyone else was as well". Fact is not everyone is going to be bothered to read or post in the thread, some people may remember who you are, some wont and others wont care. As said best just to forget and move on, you said sorry, no need to keep bumping the thread hoping for more replies.
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
You don't need to keep posting "i was at fault but hey everyone else was as well". Fact is not everyone is going to be bothered to read or post in the thread, some people may remember who you are, some wont and others wont care. As said best just to forget and move on, you said sorry, no need to keep bumping the thread hoping for more replies.
Very True and vaild but all i was saying that it was ME who was mostly at fault and was sincerely sorry for it and a few others contributed also who were at fault but i was by far the most at fault.
Tbh, I don't think an apology really works if you blame other people too; I think it invalidates it.
I know that you've been having a bit of trouble recently, but I think it's best that you let this thread, and the other thread 'die', rather than keep hashing them over. Perhaps it's worth asking a mod to lock them for you, so that the posts stop?
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
Tbh, I don't think an apology really works if you blame other people too; I think it invalidates it.
I know that you've been having a bit of trouble recently, but I think it's best that you let this thread, and the other thread 'die', rather than keep hashing them over. Perhaps it's worth asking a mod to lock them for you, so that the posts stop?
No.
And I disagree..
I Apologise for what I myself was responsonsible for and i have done that here, I APOLOGISED FOR ME BEING AT FAULT. i was only pointing out that there WERE other people who were at fault also by contributing to the whole situation by being at fault.
As mike said, it has been a long time and people wont remember or know if they where in any way at fault and then it raised the question how would you consider someone at fault.
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
As mike said, it has been a long time and people wont remember or know if they where in any way at fault and then it raised the question how would you consider someone at fault.
That is what they would have to answer, all i know know is that some other people were at fault, that to me is an indisputable fact.
At Least i had the Decency to apologise for MY Huge role in it all.
Wait..So because you said sorry and they didn't they are not decent? This is what i'm picking up..
Also what Jenna (Narcissa) said.
Decent people apologise when they are in the wrong.
I Apologised truthfully and sincerely for MY Part in it, it is very sad when other people who have been in the wrong in the same situation dont apologise.
But decent people apologise gracefully and don't then go on to stamp their feet and demand apologies from other people.
You're right, a decent person would read your apology and be like "how very gracious of you" and then apologise if they felt they'd done something wrong. So either we're not decent people or we don't think we've done anything wrong.
But that's beside the point, you do not apologise and then demand one in return. Just like you don't give people Christmas presents just because you want one back [or at least you don't make public that that's what your motivations are]
Also, personally, it would be incredibly rude of me to apologise to you in this instance. My main part in your previous thread was telling you that I don't think someone not talking to you in ASDA is worthy of Serious Discussions and Advice, and my standpoint on that has not changed, and I also do not regret telling you that, multiple times on your thread.
Whether I am right or wrong in my stance on that, it would indeed be morally wrong of me to apologise to you, because I am not sorry.
But decent people apologise gracefully and don't then go on to stamp their feet and demand apologies from other people.
You're right, a decent person would read your apology and be like "how very gracious of you" and then apologise if they felt they'd done something wrong. So either we're not decent people or we don't think we've done anything wrong.
But that's beside the point, you do not apologise and then demand one in return. Just like you don't give people Christmas presents just because you want one back [or at least you don't make public that that's what your motivations are]
I am NOT demanding anything, i am only pointing out that some people who WERE in the wrong have not apologised, if they want to let pride stand in there way that's up to them, their choice.
I Feel a lot of peace in me as I have sincerely apologised for MY part in the whole mess.
