Yea he's from online. We used to video chat all the time & talk on the phone all the time. I know that I can trust him.
He probably isn't interested in me anymore I just sent it anyways I dont care.I sent it to show that I care about him & thinking about him.
It would cause a problem cause it's not her business to send a person she doesn't even know a letter and be mean.It doesn't matter if I dont talk to him anymore.It would be bad on my part cause I know him and she doesn't.
The relationships between me & my sisters aren't the best.
I live at home i'm trying to save up to move out but im also trying to save up to go on a trip to get away for awhile so it's hard.
I babysit & I volunteer.
My sister just yells and shouts when people dont listen to her and im not like that.
If ur talking about a student loan as the same thing as being a grant.
I dont want that.My sister had that and she hated it cause she ended up having to pay it off.
Yea I know about the saftey thing.
& I know people aren't always who they say they are.
Originally Posted by
Rough_Diamond
Right, I'm going to assume you met this guy online and have never met him? If this is the case and he doesn't/can't call you, he is never online anymore, and he didn't even thank you directly for the other card you sent him, I think it's a bit of a sign he's not interested.
If your sister went to all that trouble to write a letter and send it then I can't really see how it would cause much of a problem, seeing as you don't talk to him anymore anyway.
I don't think your question is an issue really, I think the bigger issue is that you and your family seem to be leading rather destructive lives. You have bad relationships with your sisters, as far as I'm aware you're not working and you're living at home. Not to mention all of the problems with your parents and your niece and the father of your niece. I don't know your situation but I think it would be really helpful to start making positive changes in your life. Rise above the things your sisters do, set the example for them. I'm not saying take lot's of cr*p from them, but if they are being rude or confrontational try to sit down and talk to them like adults. Or if they won't have it, walk away.
Start thinking about something you want to do with your life. Do some research into opportunities etc. I'm not 100% about US but I'm guessing there are grants available for if you want to go and study something. Take some nightclasses, get out of the house and do something you enjoy and that is productive.
If this guy gets in contact again and your sister has been rude to him, then you will be able to explain what happened. Otherwise, all you can do is let it be. If he wants to contact you, then he will.
Finally, make sure you are safe with things you are doing online. I'm not sure which guy this is about, but in the past you have talked about alot of guys online that you are thinking of meeting. Never go without telling someone responsible what you are doing, remember, people who are online are not always who they say they are. Giving out addresses is also dangerous, if you are not 100% sure that the person is who they say they are. You need to make sure you are safe.
