Originally Posted by
bitomato
However, as a pro-lifer, I personally think the issue is people not wanting to care, see suffering and do something to make a person's last years humane.
I'm sorry, I think that's bullshit. Whilst that certainly may be one reason, that's certainly not the only reason. I don't want to die like that because I don't want to die not knowing my own family, not knowing where I am or who I am or how to look after myself. I don't want to die not being able to take care of myself and being totally and completely reliant on other people. That's not to do with people not caring, that's to do with my feelings about being able to be independent.
Whilst I can appreciate you're pro-life (aka anti-choice), and whilst I also think that you come from a good grounding in therapy, I think it's quite a narrow view to suggest that the issue is purely external (i.e. to do with those around you) than internal (i.e. how you feel about yourself).
With medical advances, I genuinely do think that length of life is given priority above all else - in most respects rightly, but in a few respects wrongly. It's all very well saying that the body will give up when the time is right, but that defies most medical advances in recent years. It's good to give people a sense of purpose, obviously, and it's bloody brilliant to try to let people die in a humane and positive way - but I do think that in quite a few cases that doesn't happen, and that's no fault of the people around them, but rather the nature of the particular disease and the way we approach disease and illness (in a medical sense) more generally now.