No please do report it :) It doesnt insult us,we like help!I know I personally dont read all the threads in R&V so its easy to miss.
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I tried to put an end to the drama that has been going on between three members & me, & they have only gotten worse, I've reported posts & since there is no "proof" it's about me, zilch is done.
I've removed my thread where I retaliated to one of them, & I'm just going to ignore it now, I'm seriously fed up with the ****ing drama, I do not need it, at all.
could you put them on ignore so that you can't see their threads, specifically in R/V? they're probably most likely to do that on threads they started so if you put them on ignore you can just see "oh someone on ignore wrote that, i don't need to read it to avoid possibly upsetting myself" without seeing the title or anything.
I tried to put an end to the drama that has been going on between three members & me, & they have only gotten worse, I've reported posts & since there is no "proof" it's about me, zilch is done.
I've removed my thread where I retaliated to one of them, & I'm just going to ignore it now, I'm seriously fed up with the ****ing drama, I do not need it, at all.
I don't really know you or see any drama (though I know that doesn't mean it isn't going on.. I'm just not looking for it/its none of my buisness) but, I just wanted to ask, how do you know it's about you?
Put them on ignore and ignore them if reading there posts upset you.
It could be that members out of the 'three members' are writing about different people couldn't it?
If you 'feel' someone is 'out to get you' as such sometimes you can read to much into 'I hate you/bitching' stuff in R&V..
But obviously if you have proof then report it.
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Because two of these members have now messaged me away from the site & viciously attacked me, & all 3 have been ranting about me & my girlfriend.
I'm not "paranoid".
One of them also created a thread about me in Serious that was removed, it was extremely vicious, vile & bullying, I'm glad it was removed, & now I hope they move the hell on from this because I'm sick of the ****ing drama from them, I don't need it, & I will prove it if I need to with screen shots of their messages to me (but it doesn't count as it's away from RYL I'm told) & the r&v rants are clearly about me & my girlfriend with how they are speaking about us(outside of RYL, they also speak about us/me/her like this), & I'm sick of it, but I guess as you're not involved, you wouldn't really know if it were about me / my girlfriend or not.
Either way, I'm not going to bother anymore with them, it's really pathetic & time wasting, & I'm fed up of getting more distressed on a freaking support site.
Because two of these members have now messaged me away from the site & viciously attacked me, & all 3 have been ranting about me & my girlfriend.
I'm not "paranoid".
One of them also created a thread about me in Serious that was removed, it was extremely vicious, vile & bullying, I'm glad it was removed, & now I hope they move the hell on from this because I'm sick of the ****ing drama from them, I don't need it, & I will prove it if I need to with screen shots of their messages to me (but it doesn't count as it's away from RYL I'm told) & the r&v rants are clearly about me & my girlfriend with how they are speaking about us(outside of RYL, they also speak about us/me/her like this), & I'm sick of it, but I guess as you're not involved, you wouldn't really know if it were about me / my girlfriend or not.
Either way, I'm not going to bother anymore with them, it's really pathetic & time wasting, & I'm fed up of getting more distressed on a freaking support site.
i just want to say none of my rants are about anyone on here! And sarah i seriously thought this **** was ouer what you haue jus said has hurt me beyond belief, other members mite b bitchin at u but can u leaue me out of it! Im tryin to be nice to u by replyin to ur threads and bein concerned and ur throwin it bak in my face i would prefer it if u left me alone and stop sayin horrible things about publicaly and yes that includes facebook. Im currently very suicidal. And your not helping
I think this thread is pushing it on bullying as it is. Can we please keep private matters between members exactly that: private.
RYL is supposed to be a safe place for everyone, and it's disappointing when we cannot provide that when things like this go on. All we can do is appeal to people to please, think before you post. Bullying ends here, I for one am tired of members feeling victimised and I'm damn sure they're tired of it too.
Put them on ignore, change your screen name, report things if you have proof. What else can be done? Can't exactly tell some people that they are not welcome when I'm sure there is blame on both sides.
I think the thing is people can be very vicious and nasty.... There are also people who will say something in a rant and a yell without thinking about it; and once they have calmed down will be able to look at it slightly differently.
The thing is, if you're going to slag someone off, or yell about someone then just do it on a word document?! There is absoloutely no need at all to have anything like that on RYL when the member you are going on about is on here!
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