You're fourteen..
I could do the nice thing and say 'congratulations' and all that, blah blah blah. And I honestly do hope it works out for you, that this is what you want etc.
But god, is this going to be a wake up call for you. Have fun with sleepless nights and not going to be able to go out much at all, not to mention the ridiculous amount of responsibility you probably don't realise that's going to come from this.
Enjoy.
But I must agree with the well done for 7 months free.
I'm gonna tap him like a maple tree. I'm gonna search him for some syrups. I'm gonna be having sex with him.
I know what it's like to want to die. How it hurts to smile. How you try to fit in but you can't. How you hurt yourself on the outside to try to kill the thing on the inside. ~ Girl Interrupted
When you dont want to feel, death seems like a dream. ~ Girl Interrupted
Don't you think perhaps you should have been y'know like...finantially stable before having a child? What with you still being a child? Maybe that's just me.
I'm happy that you're 7 months free, but you are too young to have a baby!
When you're 28, your child will be 14, would you want him/her to have a baby at that age? I'm sorry, but I don't think anyone here should be congratulating you on getting pregnant at the age of 14! But well done on being 7 months free.
I'm happy that you're 7 months free, but you are too young to have a baby!
Yeah, I agree. Congratulations on being 7 months free, but I don't really think a baby is the best thing for a fourteen-year-old. Balancing school, a baby, and a job when you're old enough?
Congratz. It's always nice to get some good news.
Well done on the 7 months free too, it's people like you who give others hope for their own future.
xx
You are in for such a shock when the baby is born. I know a lot of young couples and single mothers (all older than you) who are barely able to cope with the responsibility of having a child (in some cases, their children suffer because of this), and I seriously doubt you, at 14 years of age, are going to fare any better. Being pregnant at your age is nothing to congratulate.
^^^ I agree. My sister had her first kid at 17. She's 20 now with another kid, and she is still dumping them on me every night so she can go out and "have a life". I'm 18, they're not my kids, and it's not fair. I just hope you realize that to be a good mother, you are not going to have a life anymore.
You are in for such a shock when the baby is born. I know a lot of young couples and single mothers (all older than you) who are barely able to cope with the responsibility of having a child (in some cases, their children suffer because of this), and I seriously doubt you, at 14 years of age, are going to fare any better. Being pregnant at your age is nothing to congratulate.
Alright, firstly, congratz on the 7 months. thats' an amazing accomplishment.
Now, in regards to your pregnancy. ARE YOU NUTS?! You're 14. And your life is already decided, you can't fulfill any of the dreams you wanted to, and I HIGHLY doubt getting pregnant at your age was something you wanted to happen--and if this IS what you planned...then you're even more irresponsible.. I know sooo many people that've gone through this ALONE. The guy realizes that its much too soon to have a baby and high tails it out of there. You're both too young to have a baby, and unprepared I mean, Hell, at 14 you're still just a baby yourself. I think the smartest thing you can do, is go through adoption. Because no matter what happens, in the end it's what best for your baby. he/she NEEDS a safe STABLE household, with responisble ADULT parents, (or parent whichever the case may be) with a good, steady job. etc. I know you're excited now, but trust me, you won't be when the baby is born.. Statisitically speaking, there's a much higher chance for you to suffer from PPD aswell, because you are so young and still going through hormonal changes to begin with..
Plus, there's always open adoption, so that you can still be apart of the child's life; BUT not as the sole guardian..
Again, I apologize for the harshness; but, all of it NEEDED to be said..
I apologize for the harshness of my post, but it needs to be said. You need to talk to an adoption agency so that both the baby and yourself can live your life to the fullest.
''cover things over with pink and glitter makes things 'look'better...''
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I miss you Georgie! Forever in my heart!
