:) thats really great just-me.
I'm going to set myself a goal until feb. Because I think if I leave it to just see how long I can go then I will get bored and mess it up.
Don't really know how long its been since I've gone 48 days before, which I suppose is good. But I don't feel like I have given up. I feel like this is just a challenge and when its completed then I can go back to it :S
so far so good
its been about a month and these past few days have been very challenging as lots of bad things have been happening and been in a weird mind set.
but... have not harmed. so i am kinda proud.
hope everyone else is going on track :)
Aww Claire you can keep this permanent, think of all the good it does for you :) *hugs*
Well done to you Milkshake doll and unself :)
I'm still free, 6 weeks on friday
I dont know if i understand, how this works.. make a resolution.. mine is to not self harm this year at all.. is that to much of a goal, as last year 09 was my worst year ever.
Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation alot easier to deal with.
Lucy May: Just-me did a xmas thread in november to see if we could make it to xmas and then some of the people in that have carried it on to see how far we can get. I'm not going to make it my new years resolution because I don't think I am strong enough. I am just going to give myself little goals at a time. Like I'm trying to get to feburary now.
But it is great that you have made it a resolution for 2010 and I hope this thread can help support you through it. :)
Feel free to PM me anytime.
Claire.
Yeah that's basically the idea hehe.
Mine is the same sorta idea Claire, I've beat my longest record and really determined still which is great
Well done on 53 days :)
If you're struggling guys, remember, you CAN do it.
I was so low last night and still managed to get to today.
Its so hard, but you have the strength within you all.
i dont think im so confident in my goal any more. im back at the thinking,reasoning, and hoping that this down feeling passes over, i didnt do anything, when i thought i can do this i now doubht me in that i could. i have to talk about me on tuesday. i feel so ashamed, and worthless i dont want to talk about me, or anything that i feel, now i dont want to talk, i want to cancel meeting the social wrkr, im sceard to talk and im even more sceard if they go away.
Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation alot easier to deal with.