The Borderline Personality Disorder Thread

Lol no u have not but I forgive u lol

Have fun separating them all :)

[fragile as glass]

I thank you for your forgiveness!


Seperation complete. Kitten is on the bed and the cat has gone off outside!

Rabbits now downstairs eating their carrot tops!

Lol bless iv dropped my cat round at my mums with 9 puppies n daisy the 2 year old Labrador who loves licking pickle face so god know wats gona happen there pickle tbf he was always very good with daisy never got his claws out

Missing him already though gona b along week till I see him again

[fragile as glass]

My other rabbit is called daisy

Ahh great name

Great Nuneaton where I live is out of electric

[asingledaisy]

Borderline with possible HPD traits..this looks like a safe place for me to feel less alone

[asingledaisy]

struggling majorly right now...finished my DBT and trying to apply the skills

Wat is hpd

Wat r u struggling with n wat skills have I implemented

[asingledaisy]

HPD is Histrionic Personality Disorder although my diagnosis is Borderline PD.
i use distraction and cheerleading skills mostly- positive self talk...but i have issues trusting people . people try to reassure me and i dont believe them..im paranoid and always checking or questioning whether people will do what i need them to do for me or that they gonna keep their word...

with the HPD side of things i feel left out constantly and like i dont exist in other people's eyes.i do crazy stuff to priv eto people i exist and that i need my feeling sand experiences validating...my sense of self very fragile

[asingledaisy]

my guinea pigs were stolen from their run in the garden last week...i feel choked with sadness but sadness is an emotion that terrifies me..i hate loss....so distress and panic attacks been a problem again too... i dont feelpolice are on my side...because of past mental breakdowns ive had involving the police....my guinea pigs helped me a lot thi spast year and a half...now they gone...

In sorry bout ur guinea pig cud u use self soothe n wise mind

[asingledaisy]

i will try again with the wise mind and self soothe....it has worked for other things in the past

[Doikers]

~Hello asingledaisy, ~welcome to the thread *Waves* I'm Mark :)

[fragile as glass]

Hi asingledaisy - Daisy seems to be a theme today!

I'm Liddy, and I spent a year in a PD ward which was run on DBT methods. So I have knowledge of DBT too!!!!

So sorry to hear about ur guinea pigs - I can kinda relate - I lost my five beautiful chickens with personalities that you wouldn't believe to a fox attack recently and the place was like a massacre site- bitten off heads etc, makes me sad to lose them.

How's everything going
Iv arrived in Norfolk n it's like the last two years haven't happened and we are back at uni it's amazing we are watching greys anatomy life is ok today there has been no drama score

[Nosamason]

hi Lucy, no I don't have friends I can trust in real life... I dont have friends at all.. I've tried support on here but seems that my issues drive people away.. I learned not to depend on people for help.. I just hold it in.. My ex is one of the main sources of pain right no..

Y is ur ex a source of oain is there anyway u get can get friends like hobbies etc

[Indigo.]

Mason, I know its hard to trust people, but keeping it all in won't do you any goid;on the contrary , it can make you worse. Try not to think that your issues drive others away..on this site and ob this thread, there are people who have probably gone through similar experiences, or have similar issues as you and can understand things better than other people IRL for example.

You can try to talk to us here, if you feel alright with sharing some of the stuff you're struggling with...

You said your ex is a big source of distress right now. Do you want to talk about it?

[Doikers]

Lucy, Simba and Pumba and the little rat are quite attention holding :P

[fragile as glass]

Mason, I have very few friends - which would make certain people happy which is sick really but there you go, but it's better to have one good friend in the world than a million acquaintances. I have a nice home, wonderful pets and a boyfriend. I have no family but there you go, I don't need them. You need to let go of the people in your life which are a negative influence on you, come out of your cocoon and fly like the beautiful butterfly you can be. Then you may find that you start attracting more positive, worth it, people into your life.

*huggles everyone*