i am sorry for non personal responses, i have had a few. or many. i am severely pissed, freyja is away at my mums as i had jamies mums surprise 50th birthday. and we got a little drunkedy.
feeling a bit off the past 2 days or so because someone overstepped the mark with me. what they thought was a joke triggered me pretty badly which is actually pretty rare for me. in the space of an hour he grabbed my boobs, slapped my arse and pinged my bra straps three times. he also made pretty rude comments and i was glad to get out of there. it was all done in humour but it hugely affected me and i didnt sleep very well the past couple of days. still havent told jamie, hoping that i will get this dutch courage...
"When I want your opinion, I'll beat it out of you" - Dr Samuel Loomis
I'm fine. I've had a miscarriage. I have to have a scan on Tuesday to confirm it. People keep telling me I don't know yet, that everything could be alright. But I do know. It's my body. And I've had a miscarriage.
Also, doctors have said my sister is highly likely to have Lymphoma. She's 17. Will probably have to have chemotherapy.
I seem to do be doing ok this morning, but I felt like that all day yesterday, then cried in the evening. I know it's just a matter of time before I go back 'there' and I don't know how I'm going to cope. I feel sorry for Mike and Lucas :(
i dont know what to say hun other than i am sorry and we are all here for you.
i know how it feels to be so worried about a sibling, my brother developed an aggressive form of cancer when he was 19 and i was 18 so i can entirely sympathise with how you are feeling there. When will they know for sure?
"When I want your opinion, I'll beat it out of you" - Dr Samuel Loomis
hey ashleigh, you are right a woman usually knows her body. i hope the scan isn't too stressful for you. as for your sister, i'll be praying for her too. lots of love and cuddles to you, lucas and mike xxx
stace, do men usually do those things in a friendly manner to you, considering that you are 'taken' and a mother (not that it should make you any less 'up for a laugh' etc)? speak to jamie, the longer you don't tell him, the harder it will be.
i'm still contracting, matt wanted sex last night and i was so up for it, but worried that it could set off dilation (although i havent specifically been told not to have sex), worried it would hurt my hips and then baby started bouncing and made me feel physically sick and everytime matt cuddled me it made my skin crawl, felt creepy.
i said would you feel guilty if we did it and i went into labour properly, and he said no, if it happens it happens.... but then even some nearly term babies don't make it and i'd feel so guilty if sex brought about labour and for some reason she didn't survive.... argh what do i do? i want this baby out, but i feel so guilty for thinking that.
mand x
Mand, South Wales, Full-time working, single mother to 2 scarily independent girls.
I AM A PROUD PLUMERIA SISTER
I'm fine. I've had a miscarriage. I have to have a scan on Tuesday to confirm it. People keep telling me I don't know yet, that everything could be alright. But I do know. It's my body. And I've had a miscarriage.
Also, doctors have said my sister is highly likely to have Lymphoma. She's 17. Will probably have to have chemotherapy.
I seem to do be doing ok this morning, but I felt like that all day yesterday, then cried in the evening. I know it's just a matter of time before I go back 'there' and I don't know how I'm going to cope. I feel sorry for Mike and Lucas :(
Honestly, I never wanted to say anything when it first started happening, idk why? Incase it upset you or anything. But us women know our bodies more than anybody else does, we can tell when somethings changed etc. And if you feel you have miscarried chances are you are right. I know I was the last time i miscarried (not this time, obvious reasons).
I'm so sorry about your sister, like I said on lj. Nothing I can say will make it any easier. Just know i'm here (and, I don't think she got the message I sent her on MSN, completely pissed out my face, sorry about that :[).
Thinking of you & I love you to bits. Always will
xxx
**If You Love Someone Or Something Enough, Set Them Free.**
I'm fine. I've had a miscarriage. I have to have a scan on Tuesday to confirm it. People keep telling me I don't know yet, that everything could be alright. But I do know. It's my body. And I've had a miscarriage.
Also, doctors have said my sister is highly likely to have Lymphoma. She's 17. Will probably have to have chemotherapy.
I seem to do be doing ok this morning, but I felt like that all day yesterday, then cried in the evening. I know it's just a matter of time before I go back 'there' and I don't know how I'm going to cope. I feel sorry for Mike and Lucas :(
Chin up, stiffen up the lip soldier, you'll be okay. Just don't do anything stupid to yourself that will make people worry about you even more.
xxx Sarah
Hate to sound like hogging the limelight...
OMG I AM 15 WEEKS PREGNANT ALREADY AND HALF MY WARDROBE DOESN'T FIT ME! Crap time goes fast. Next ultrasound next month.
I am in a childcare course at college and If i get put into 2nd year moment of truth thursday or friday. I get a placement with babies But here is the problem
What activities can you do with babies? The criteria is that they are 1 or under. I seriously do not have a clue nor do my college mates. Help would be appreiciated. xxx
Looking for some advice if any of you can be of any help?
I've been looking at travel systems and I quite like the look of this one http://www.toysrus.co.uk/Babies-R-Us...mpagne(0070292) (make sure the end bracket is on or the link won't work!)
does anyone have any recommendations for a good system? preferably under £200?
Thankyou!
Pegward, so sorry to hear about your miscarriage big hugs for you xxx
i found it was good because she was facing me when she was tiny, then i put her forward facing when she got a bit nosey. what you will find with a lot of prams is that when its laid flat you cant get into the basket. but with the one i had, it has a drop down basket which is fab. it was well priced for what it is and i still use it occasionally when going to asda as the basket is a decent size and i can get loads in it. freyja was always and still is comfortable in it.
I'm fine and everything is alright, Thanks.
: )
I was just scared, because My biological parents were coming over for dinner; I haven't seen them since two months ago, when I was pregnant with my twinies. Other than that time, the last time I seen them was when I was taken away from them. They used to hurt me, horribley... to the point where i would be in the hospital for weeks, sometimes even months.
Everything went fairly well; There was a bit of a small argument, but everything was eventually worked out. I got to see all my siblings, && everyone got to see Rose and Abram. They are coming over again soon(haven't sent an exact date, yet)
Her laugh rings through me like a thousand bells.
The soft sweet way her little head smells.
His smile so bright, his giggle so sweet.
His precious tiny fingers, his chubby little feet.
What filled my days before, I do not know.
I've so much love within me, from inside my heart I glow.
A beautiful new world has just begun.
For in it, is my beautiful daughter and my handsome son.
Can anyone suggest anywhere to get maternity trousers from? Only trouble is, I need them in super short length as I'm only 5ft1 and everywhere seems to do them in really long lengths... I brought a new pair of trousers the other day but I've already popped a button on them so desparately need some maternity ones!!
Thanks. :)
Hope everyone is ok x
