Adult - The Rainbow Room

[Little Lost Clock]

So have you always been sure of your sexuality Nat/Charlie?

[BeautyFiend]

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Originally Posted by Little Lost Clock

So have you always been sure of your sexuality Nat/Charlie?

Oh hell no.

holly.. ive always been attracted to women,
but ive always bee attracted to men too.

I was engaged to a guy for 2 years, and i left him to be with a guy that i lived with for a year.

ive had a lot of sex with a lot of different men, but with not so many women.

i have NO clue about my sexuality at all.

i think though that im leaning more and more on the 'i can see my self ending up with a woman' side of things.

[Little Lost Clock]

Someone i know cut 'i don't want to be queer' into their leg..not so good. People shouldn't be made to feel like it's bad thing but we can't get away from it.

[Little Lost Clock]

I feel so much more comfortable with a woman with sex and stuff, i don't know why

[BeautyFiend]

Course it's not bad.
Being attracted to anyone is amazing.
To expand on my previous answer, so Charlie doesn't feel silly for writing an essay.

I started getting feelings for women when I was 12.
Hated myself for it.
Came out as bi to friends at 14.
Got my first girlfriend at 15, came out as gay shortly before my 16th.
Dated said girlfriend for 2 and a half years.
Now i'm fancying a bit of experimentation.
But ultimately I see myself ending up with a woman =]

maybe like..

ok.. with a woman, they have the same as you, so its not so threatening.. plus, if youre not so secure about your body as it is, it feels less like theyre analysing all your lumps and bumps and appreciating you for just being you.

and maybe because as a rule.. women tend to make love with their heads rather than their genitals.

as a rule.

[BeautyFiend]

I think women just know what other women like, generally.
Makes sense.

[Little Lost Clock]

Come experiment with me Nat ;)

aye..


^^what a wonderful response.

[Little Lost Clock]

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Originally Posted by xsugarandspicex

maybe like..


and maybe because as a rule.. women tend to make love with their heads rather than their genitals.

as a rule.

HAHA true

do you have brothers and sisters hol?

[Little Lost Clock]

Come back Ollie......................

[Little Lost Clock]

I used to have a sister but not anymore no, neither. Why?

just wondered.

i was thinking about what you said about your mum being abit disappointed. i think maybe my mother is less bothered because my sisters are both straight, and one of them is pregnant.
so even if i end up being gay full time, she still gets the weddings and grand kids and stuff.

[BeautyFiend]

My mum was gutted cause my sisters have both said they don't want kids.
Ha.
But i've re-assured her that I do.

[Little Lost Clock]

I don't want to have my own kids...i might adopt

i would like to be pregnant,
but i dont want my own kids.. ive alwas wanted to foster or adopt.

[BeautyFiend]

I've always wanted to adopt =]
Was talking to my mum about it actually.
'Would you love an adopted child as if it were your own'
etc.

if you didnt have your own children, how would you know if you were loving an adopted one the same?