Well a few days ago on facebook I created a HUGE war on my status, by openly questioning God, sins,etc.
And in the heat of the moment, I came out and told my family I was bi, which created yet another war,lol.
Ive known I was bi since the 6th grade, but was afraid to admit it until several years ago and even then it was only to a few people. I wasnt embarrassed of it, but my family had made it very clear how they felt, so I didnt feel the need to announce it to them. I honestly beleive me hidden my true feelings,etc added to my depression and everything else (heck it may even be the reason) I never felt like I could be true to myself becouse I always worried so much about what my mom and everyone else though.
I told my husband a few years ago, and he supports me (and not in the whole, "Ill get a 3 some type of way" either,lol)
Basically my family didnt take it well at all, some told me they will put up with me, Im going to hell and so on.
I had more support from my friends (and most of them Ive never meet in person) then my family....
I Know I could of told them in a better way, but I was sick and tired of them bashing everyone who felt or thought different then they did.
I broke down in tears after reading their comments to me, but Im over it. Its my life not theres.
I'm glad you finally got to come out properly to them though. Don't let the hate get to you, maybe, just maybe they'll come around - you are their daughter after all. And you're right, it is your life c: and so I'm glad that you aren't going to dwell on their opinions too much.
I'm proud for you!
You may lose the battle, but keep fighting the war.
"I'm scaring myself, I don't know the girl in the mirror now"
"How can you know? How can you stay in control when all that you know is falling apart?"
"Time's racing please slow down, i gotta find my way out, I'm hopless but hoping.."
RIP Lewis Thelwall - 26/11/12
ILOVEYOU- remember that c:
“The good things don’t always soften the bad, but vice-versa, the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant.”
“Nobody important? Blimey, that’s amazing. Do you know, in nine hundred years of time and space I’ve never met anyone who wasn’t important before.”
“If it’s time to go, remember what you’re leaving. Remember the best. My friends have always been the best of me.”
How is everyone? I'm just looking to possibly make some friends. I don't know very many gay or lesbians in my area so I have noone I can really relate to.
I started it YEARS ago!
