You need to get outside help, ASAP. I'm serious, we all are.
I don't think that you're seeking attention, actually, I feel like you're reaching out for help. But that's what I think.
Please Ian, you can't keep living like this. You need the help. Be strong, go to a therapist, and set up times for meeting with them. It's the only thing you can do to get the proper help that you need.
Killng yourself isn't going to make anyone happier. You're wrong. It's gonna make a lot of people on here sad. Trust me.
Please get the help that you need.
~Gwen B.
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Suicide *triggering* *WARNING GRAPHIC*
Iv had enough im worse today i really cant handle this anymore. Please dont mention gfetting help. Im really not in a good way at all im sitting here crying because im so close to ending it. I cut all my legs the other night and made myself ill i brought up blood today. I did sumthing else too.............. im so down i havent been sleeping properly i feel exhausted n i just want to die. I cant take it another night.
What else are we supposed to say if we can't mention help?
*Click* You're better?
We can't.
You need to get help, I was feeling really bad 4 month ago, I tryed to kill myself, I thought "Enough is enough" and seeked help. 4month later i'm starting my CBT course tommorow. Nothing more I can say to be honest. As it won't help anyways.
On a long enough time line, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero.
i know you dont know me but ive read this and yeah jus want to say a couple of things. firstly im sorry your going through such a crap time at the mo and sorry ive never shown any support for you before.
i dont wana sound harsh here but, reading through this thread theres kind of a pattern. you get what i mean? so many people care for you theres no doubt about that and they will and are helping you as much as they can. but like people have already said the help you can get through this site is limited. you need to get proper help. and if your od'ing and cutting you should defo get medical attention. bringing up blood doesnt sound good at all. please get some help. sorry if this comes across badly. hope your ok
dont worry. il just not bother coming on here then. Iv been making myself sick alot. But i shall just go back to hiding. Who cares. I wont bother posting in this thread as there is no need.
thats not what i ment ian. you have every right to get support from here its just that it can only help to a point. thats all i ment.sorry if i offended you. take care
dont worry. il just not bother coming on here then. Iv been making myself sick alot. But i shall just go back to hiding. Who cares. I wont bother posting in this thread as there is no need.
Ian please take on board what everyone is saying to you,
this is a support site to help us get through our difficulties, its a space to express ourselves, but its purpose is limited and its UP TO YOU to get help.
you say dont bother saying to you " get help" what else do you expect us to say to you ian, you are coming on and telling us how suicidal you are that your making yourself sick, BUT YOUR NOT CHANGING THIS
to change it you need to GET PROFESSIONAL HELP, it doesnt help us or you when you keep telling us how bad you are and what your doing to yourself.
we cant do anything more than listen to you, but what are you hoping to get from coming on and telling us how much your risking your life.
and not trying to get yourself any help.
please stop saying to us no one cares you know very well ian how much everyone cares keep looking at your thread
but your expecting us to give you something we cant.
YOU ARE THE ONE WHO CAN CHANGE YOUR SITUATION -we cant do it
only you can. get professional help now mate
you know very well what you need to do to help yourself
please do try.
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
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That wouldn't be a bad thing, IF you got help. I'd love for you to not have to post here, because you've seeked help and are feeling better.
Only you can do something about it, and I hope you do. Telling us you can't cope isn't helping anyone, this shouldn't stop you from talking, it should encourage you to seek help, beyond this forum.
On a long enough time line, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero.
Ian dont be like that please just take on board what everyone has said to you.
all of us have only ever given you support and still are here to give you support, but YOU need to do certain things yourself
weve tried to explain that you need extra help and support from outside RYL and its up to you if you choose to get that help, if you dont theres only so much we can do for you. We find it hard when you just keep posting about what your going to do to yourself, as we cant do anything to help you.
If you chose to get outside help for yourself , as well as being here
you would help yourself get to a better place.
please dont get upset about what we are saying no one wants you to leave
we only want you to get help for yourself
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
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Ian Mate,
Hugs, its ok just please take on board what i and others here, have said to you, and get yourself more help outside RYL .
we cant do anymore for you that suggest you get this help
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
maybe its better if i leave. Be better for everyone then.
Ian,
no one wants you to leave, you are here to be supported,
we are supporting you by telling you that we want you to get more help
outside RYL for yourself.
that will make a big difference to you, please do it, we cant get that help for you, you know this mate,
please do get more help,and we cant change things for you.
only you can make that change Ian please try mate
until you do nothing else will change.
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
Im back iv not been on for a a day i was really busy. Iv been keeping to myself alot. I keep thinking to myself things are going to get better but i think im wrong there. The day when something good happens to me is the day when im happy. Im not gonna go on and on there is no point i wanted someone to talk to. I dont spose it matters really.
Ian,
Its good youve been keeping yourself busy, Its good to youve been thinking things are going to get better, i know how hard that is to think positive. Please dont give up, things wont change overnight Ian give it more time.
Please please will you contact someone outside RYL a professional to get you extra support,and let us know when you have been able to do this mate.
That willl make a difference to the way you are coping. Its important you keep posting , but please do get outside help
Ian. Things wont get better unless you get extra support to help you manage your risky thoughts.
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
I say bollocks to me because i dont matter fuck living cos theres no point anymore. Just dont bother about me cos im not fucking worth it. Fuck everything about me. Ever since i signed up here iv been nothing but a pathetic little fucker. So yeah i say bollocks to shadow.
Ian mate,
You do matter to others tho mate you do and you can see that you do, by looking at your thread people wouldnt post on it if they didnt care about you, i care about you to.
I know you might not like yourself right now but please understand people do care about you.
there is allways a point in living you just need to look inside yourself to find it, and you can do this,
we have bothered about you because you deserve to live and be happy and find a life for yourself, just as much as anyone else here at RYL.
Your not a pathetic little fucker mate,
all we want for you is to get better, we are here to support you and help you.
But you must also HELP YOURSELF ian you have to make some changes yourself, and i understand its hard for you.
But you can do it, its allways your choice.
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
My Adoptee :)S_Pod live help
Ian, listen to Dave, he's really wised up when it comes to this, he's certainly "Been there, done that" so he knows what he's talking about.
Of course we want to talk to you. And we want you to get better, but to do that you need to tell someone.
I bet your friends and family would much rarther learn about how you're feeling then find you dead one day. Then they'd know and they won't be able to help.
I certainly don't say bollocks to you. You're a good person, you reply in ALOT of threads. And always make a nice welcome for people. You deserve help as much as the next person, but I just wish we could sort of "Push" you to start it, I know it's hard, but you've just got to try.
Hope you're feeling better mate. And as a general rule of thumb, listen to Dave, he's always right in this subject! Take care mate.
On a long enough time line, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero.
I love you truly.
Take care mate.