Hi everyone. Not been on this forum in absolute years due to recovering from SH and depression a long time ago. I now however have some major relationship and sexuality issues and I thought this would be the best place to turn :) I don't want to start ranting a big long story on here unless that's ok, or would it be more appropriate for me to start a thread? x
Hi im Vanessa and i don't really know what i am
becaus really im terrible at being straight but im not a lesbian
Gender just dosen't really matter to me.
actully i have been seriously crushing on a drag king but he dosent seem to see me :(
Hi Everyone! :) I'm not really sure if this is the place for this, but I really need to get something off my chest.
I've been feeling a bit confused and guilty lately. I consider myself to be bisexual. Up until I was 16 I thought I was a lesbian because I had only ever been attracted to girls, and had only ever had experience with girls. Then, as I started to experiment with guys, I began to see myself as bisexual.
When I was 17 I met an amazing guy. I told him right off the bat that I was bisexual, and he was okay with it, but made it clear that he didn't want me to do anything with girls while we were together, which I was fine with. Now, we have been married for almost 3 years, and we have a good relationship. However, now I'm feeling really guilty because I keep thinking about being with women. Most of my life I have mainly been attracted to women, and now I'm realizing that I have very little sexual attraction to men at all. I love my husband more than anything, he is supportive and thoughtful, and I want to be with him, but sometimes, I just want to be with a woman. I know if I said anything to him he would be hurt, and I just don't know what to do. I've been keeping these feelings hidden for so long, and maybe that's just how I'll have to keep them.
I could use someone to talk to about this! Send me a message if you feel up to it. :)
Thanks Everyone.
<3 Alicia
Just what am I supposed to say?
And tell you why I turned out this way?
Don't make me. Don't make me.
Hi..
I'm new to this board. and this thread. well, I have a question for anyone who feels like answering:
if you're in a relationship and in love with someone, do you ever feel like you lose the need to label yourself anymore? (gay, bisexual, whatever..)
I've had a bit of a revelation recently, that it doesn't matter to say which gender in general I'm attracted to anymore because I'm not interested in anyone but the person I love, and the person I love happens to be a man. so I'm not quick to say "I'm gay" anymore, just that I'm in love with a man.
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Yes, that makes sense to me. When I was with my girlfriend I never once said "I'm bisexual.". I just said "I am in love with my girlfriend.". And that was that. It's rather nice (:
That being said. My name is Alix, and I am bisexual. I only came out less than a year ago (wasn't planning on ever coming out). Hello all (:
So I have stumbled here. Hmm, what an odd week I have had. See, one thing I have never questioned before is my sexuality. I was totally 100% straight of course.. but. Nope. Can't say that anymore. I met this girl.... and she is amazing beyond belief. Sometimes I just think of her and explode with emotion. Never before have I been this happy.. But still a little dazed and confused xD. wouldn't mind a someone to chat with about it. None of my friends can really relate. *shrugs* Thanks =)
~Lauren
