Okay ive been slightly busy. Anyway im not one to back out of what i say -
I said awhile ago about having a fun weekend, i havent forgotten, just been a bit distracted so i propose we have it the 24th & 25th of March - That might be a while off but it gives me (and anyone who wants to help) some time to prepare. I just want everyone to remember its to be something to look forward to and just a weekend of positivity, you know. It might not be like the greatest weekend ever, but its just more of a way for people to feel a bit better and to also join in and feel a part of the community we have here. So rather than this just being an idea thats floating around for ages that is my proposed date!
(ps i need to eat less sugar :P)
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
Sorry I've not been around, I've been busy. I hope everyones doing okay.
For me, I never knew it was possible to be so happy and so sad at the same time. I'm happy because I like this girl, and she likes me, as I've said. But, she has problems as much as I do. She's on medication but appears to be really struggling. She has unusual sleep patterns, and goes through periods where she has no motivation to do anything at all, even getting out of bed. She has a minor drinking problem as well. I'm trying to help her, but am unsure of how to as she won't go to her GP. So if anyone has any suggestions I'd be thankful. She's already agreed to accept my help, so now I just want a decent way to help her through this.
Lorainne *Hugs* I attend a substance abuse clinic , If you PM me this girls General Location , No need for a name , address , Phone just general Location like Town and county I'll ask my worker if their are any clinics there and pass the details onto you via PM? I hope I'm not over stepping my Mark ?
I'm still not comfortable in my skin and the anasthetic's slowly wearing thin - Otep
Everyones lost but me! - Indiana Jones
It's okay , they know me here .
Kahlia1981 is my adopted little sister :)
''Courage doesn't always roar , sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow"
Mark, you made me lol.
That might be a good idea. I'll PM you, and then if you come up with anything I can pass it along to her and leave it for her to decide. I can't really make her do anything she doesnt want to. I'm scared she'll think I'm trying to change her. I like her just the way she is. I can just see that she needs help, just as I do, but she isn't getting it. I might direct her to RYL. Hell knows this place has helped me a lot.
I am in a self destructive Mood almost permenatly, have been since I was about 14 , I'm now 31 , if it's not S.I. it's drink, I got talked around from buying alcohol by my befriender Becky just now but by the time I was home I really really wanted it , IDK what to do :/
*Leaves Hugs and Choccies on the Table*
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I'm still not comfortable in my skin and the anasthetic's slowly wearing thin - Otep
Everyones lost but me! - Indiana Jones
It's okay , they know me here .
Kahlia1981 is my adopted little sister :)
''Courage doesn't always roar , sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow"
I mean no offense here....but am I the only one who finds a big long thread hard to follow?
I probably am....But it's like one big effing run-on sentence kind of, and it just doesn't meld with my head. I have BPD, and other problems, and trying to keep up with it just makes my head spin. Been wanting to ask for a while , and now I have.
So your scars fade away/You soaked up the pain/A better person 'cause you lived through those days/And now you know what it's like to prove/You can overcome anything that gets to you/Well it's alright/We're sayin' our goodbyes/To the past and everything that ain't right/We won't waste another day/With all these silly things in our way-Crossfade
Light a candle for the sinners...Set the world on fire...
Apomixis i do not find the thread hard to follow, if i've been away for awhile i tend to read back one page and gather the general gist of the thread and post away. I dont understand what you find hard to follow?
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
Apomixis - I feel the same sometimes, but I know it's just because my concentration is a bit out of it. I just make an effort to read back and then post. I do it mainly because I don't want to seem like a troll or anything lol. I want to be a part of this community so I'm making the best effort I can.
How is everyone? I was meant to meet the girl I was on about yesterday, but she slept in and missed her lift. I was a little annoyed and very upset to begin with. Started thinking that she doesn't care, and all that stuff. But when I was texting her later on I realized that she felt really bad about not being able to meet me. She says she's gunna make it up to me. I also told her I miss her, and she said she misses me too. I feel so special sometimes when she talks to me like that.
I hope everyone is okay today :D
I could be better Mark. The girl I was on about managed to get up early today to meet a friend but her friend couldn't make it. So I invited her over mine but apparently her mum wants her to go somewhere else. I mean, she's 21 ffs she can do what she like can't she? I mean she still lives with her parents, but so do I, and I'm allowed to do what I like within reason. I'm just so annoyed.
I'm also scared that she's making excuses because she doesnt want to see me.
