try not to think about it at all.
thats my solution.
edit: i think your sexuality will come to you in time. and even if it takes a while.. whats that going to change? it doesn't change who YOU are, it doesn't change how people feel about you or how you feel about them.
just seeeeee what happens & don't fret.
I don't even think it's about being "certain" if you're gay/bi/whatever. As Linda said, you're still you, whatever your sexuality it, it's not the be all and end all of you.
but your sexuality is only ONE PART of who you are. it's not your whole personality. there are probably a bunchh of other things that define you other than (maybe) being bi. you can feel whatever the hell you like! nobody is going to change or challenge that because they can't basically. don't force it and just go with the floowwww (as emily said).
as for meeting other people, i don't know. if you're at uni you can join the lgbt group, or go to gay clubs, or whatever.
I think you should stop worrying about things like that (..i know it's easier said than done) and just learn to let yourself feel whatever you feel. just go with the flowww.
“The good things don’t always soften the bad, but vice-versa, the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant.”
“Nobody important? Blimey, that’s amazing. Do you know, in nine hundred years of time and space I’ve never met anyone who wasn’t important before.”
“If it’s time to go, remember what you’re leaving. Remember the best. My friends have always been the best of me.”
why do you think you're bi?
jus go with the flow.
i know at first it can be a bit daunting & you feel like you're weird & it's confusing & scary but you don;t have to put a label on it. if you want to put a label on it then that's fine and it's okay to change your mind at anytime.ive been straight bi gay bi gay straight bi gay bi straight gay bi gay bi gay etc...
when you say you haven't had much experience is that with boys or girls or either?
I roll over and hold on tightly, and whisper "If they want you, they're gonna have to fight me,"
you dont need to stick yourself in a box, if you meet a boy you meet a boy, if you meet a girl you meet a girl.
i knew i was a lesbian a long time before i had a girlfriend. i slept with some men too just to see because my life would be so much easier if i was straight. now i would probably say i am a lesbian, but who knows who i will meet? as long as i love and feel loved then whatever.
As is already said, going with the flow is good. I found mixed games of spin the bottle are a good way to test, you end up kissing boys and girls.
But also it can be changable, some weeks you might prefer boys or girls.
It varies.
"Be nice. Think happy thoughts. Champion silver linings. Love all things (not just cute things like babies and kittens) & when you do love - love like they do in power ballads (you know like on a cliff with the wind in your hair and your eyes shut, knowing you'll never know love like this). Watch out for dog poo. Smile at people - even grumpy ones. Remember anything is possible & whatever you do always try to look on the bright side."
