Adult - He might come and see me!

pixie*lyssie · 24-05-2008, 01:33 PM

I got rather friendly with this guy online from another website and we kind of got naughty on MSN and he said he's really close to where I live at the moment (he usually lives in Exeter) and he might come and see me on Sunday or Monday when he's on his way home. I'm busy on Sunday for my dad's 60th but... If it's Monday then... I am excited to see him but I don't know if he'll want to have sex or not. Do you think he will? I don't know, it'll be my first time and I am fine with it and everything but I just don't know if he will or not. It's like... I don't know if he'll want to do it or just pop in a say HELLO and have a cuppa coffee. lol.,.,., Don't know what to expect!

Could you help me please?

Thank you xx

Mouse81 · 24-05-2008, 02:13 PM

you need to be very careful...i would advise you NOT to have sex, especially if you haven't met him yet! who knows what disease he could have.

pixie*lyssie · 24-05-2008, 02:20 PM

I would like to go out and get to know him etc... I just wouldn't know what to do if he expected sex and I didn't. It would be awkward. Thanks for your replies xx

pixie*lyssie · 24-05-2008, 02:29 PM

Thanks Rabbit Lady (sorry I don't know your name) Yeah I am going to be letting people know that I am with him.

I will let him know if he comes that I don't want to have sex with him as I think it's best we don't to be honest. I am scared that I could catch anything and I don't even know.

xx

Mouse81 · 24-05-2008, 02:39 PM

How old are you allyssa star?

pixie*lyssie · 24-05-2008, 03:00 PM

I'm 19. xx

hammy · 24-05-2008, 03:20 PM

i know you wil be.....but be careful wont you. good idea about letting family know where you are. meet in an open/public place to start with.

about the sex thing, I waited a good few years older than you before settling with the right person....dont rush into it, make it the right time and it will feel special. i'm not saying dont have fun, i sometimes just love holding hands :)
hope you're ok
xxx

pixie*lyssie · 24-05-2008, 03:27 PM

Thanks so much Hammy xx

dancingirl · 24-05-2008, 03:57 PM

Everything I was going to say/suggest has already been said, but I just wanted to add to take care. Say to yourself in your head what you want to happen and what you don't want to happen, and stick to that plan when you meet him. You can have that control, and make it a really good meet :]

darlkill · 24-05-2008, 05:21 PM

i agree with every1 be safe

l'il esky · 25-05-2008, 07:19 PM

everyone said what i think. PLEASE BE VERY CAREFUL, people lie big time on the internet!!! have to say i have done it before and i ended up running away after meeting him for about 10mins. as people have said make sure lots of people know where you are, dont get into his car-if you go out, go to a public cafe or something
let us know how it goes...... TAKE CARE xxx