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Old 26-04-2008, 01:39 PM   #1
alina
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so much for friendship


so i told one of my very best friends about my borderline personality disorder because she's been really worried about me lately to the point where she's gotten really pissed that i haven't called her back in a while. so i figured it was time to come clean and tell her what's really wrong with me. i figured she'd realize that she needs to be a lot more patient with me, that i can't help it, when i don't want to talk to ppl, i don't want to talk! i figured she'd understand. Well, she didn't. The exact opposite happened. She told me she wanted to help but i apperently don't want her help so from now on "you're just my classmate". She's right, i don't want 'help' but that doesn't mean i don't want friends! How can she be so cruel? It's like she would have said the same thing no matter what reason i gave her for not returning her calls for a couple days. This isn't fair, and now i'm just plain angry!



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Old 26-04-2008, 02:15 PM   #2
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*Huge hugs* I am sorry this happened to you, it must be really hurtful and you have every right to feel angry. Can you perhaps talk to her and let her know how much this has upset you? Sorry I don't really have any other advice. Take care
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Old 26-04-2008, 02:27 PM   #3
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*hugs* i'm so sorry that happend hun.
maybe try talking to her in a couple of days when thigns are calmer and explain you need her friendship
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Old 29-04-2008, 02:27 PM   #4
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I can empathise 100% people are just useless lol



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Old 29-04-2008, 04:43 PM   #5
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oui, understand totally. poor poor you, sending sympathy.
hate it that people react like that, have had very similar. More the fool them, they cant see how special you are!
may be she will calm down. If not though, you are strong and you can recover from this.
sending warm hugs.
sorry if this didnt help.
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