Triggering (SI) - please help

[over and out]

i dont no what to do i spent the day vertually in tears cos my bloody teacher told me ill fail my a levels and when i do ill be kicked out so all i wanna do is cut till theres nothin left to keep goin cos i feel like im so useless and that much of a failure please help me b4 summat i do does worse damage

[Cazki]

Im so sorry *Gives you a big hug* please try to calm down i know its difficult and your upset but please please dont harm yourself your doing so well. I care about you and so do many other people. We will do our best to support you for as long as you need it. Im really really sorry that you have been in tears.

Have you though about distractions? Maybe you could consider visting the fun and distractions forum? There are lots of thread to keep your mind occupied. Maybe try listening to your favourite music. Or doing some jobs to keep yourself busy. Anything that keeps you busy will help you alot. Please take a deep breath you can get through this. We are all hetre to help get you through this.

Im sorry about what your teacher said im sure your not going to fail at all. In my opinion i think she was just trying to make you aware that if you didnt get on with your work that you would het behind and then you would have problems. I think the way she said it didint help and was very harsh. I think that she was just trying to warn you. Please take care and keep safe. Your so lovely and you really dont deserve this. Please keep talking to us. *Gives you a big hug*

Best wishes Ian xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[over and out]

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Originally Posted by shadow

Im so sorry *Gives you a big hug* please try to calm down i know its difficult and your upset but please please dont harm yourself your doing so well. I care about you and so do many other people. We will do our best to support you for as long as you need it.

Have you though about distractions? Maybe you could consider visting the fun and distractions forum? There are lots of thread to keep your mind occupied. Maybe try listening to your favourite music. Or doing some jobs to keep yourself busy. Anything that keeps you busy will help you alot. Please take a deep breath you can get through this. We are all hetre to help get you through this.

Im sorry about what your teacher said im sure your not going to fail at all. In my opinion i think she was just trying to make you aware that if you didnt get on with your work that you would het behind and then you would have problems. I think the way she said it didint help and was very harsh. Please take care and keep safe.

Best wishes Ian xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

thank you i have tried doin loadsa stuff today and in the end i jus broke down again ill try the games tho thank you xxxx

[Infected Mushroom]

keep strong babe
distract yourself, your teacher may be trying to tell you that you need to work a bit harder, but he may have gone about it the wrong way. use it constructively. is cutting going to erase what he said?
take care
always here
xxx

[tearsofgold]

Hon, sorri you feel so rubbish.
That teacher really needs to get some social skills, she shouldnt be talking to anyone like that. My advice would be to take it as a challenge, concerntrate on you studies and prove her wrong. Im sure you are more than capable.
What subjects are you doing? There maybe people who could help you out a little.
Please try and take care of yourself
xXx

[over and out]

my subjects are psychology sociology and health and social care i kinda given up tryin now tbh though

[((deleted))]

Maybe to distract yourselfyou could do some catch-up work/revision for your subjects.

I think your teacher may have been trying to say that you need to 'buckle down' and do some work but i agree she didn't go the right way about it.

Cutting isn't going to erase what she said- the only way to do that is to knuckle down and prove her wrong.

*big hugs*

Ruth