Partners.

[buzzy_bee]

Does anybody struggle to explain their SI to their partner? My boyfriend always blames himself and I don't know what to say to him apart from trying to assure him that its not, because it usually isn't. He never triggers me, its usually myself. He's the person that I think I can turn to but if he blames himself I don't know if I can cos I can't make him feel like that. Does anyone else have the same problem? Or does anybody know what I can do? love Claire x x x

[Douglass]

my boyfriend's ex used to self harm so its never really mentioned at all.
However I not self harmed in the 4 months we been together so I guess he sees it as in the past and does not want to upset me or anything by bringing it up.

[Amaryllis]

My ex never blamed himself, but he was always sad when he saw new ones.