Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - help me, im so scared!

[bobohbobo]

hi im so scared, i met a girl online ages ago and we used to chat, fir the past few day we had been chating about my masturbating habbits, and i told her today i had a picture of my penis. and i asked her if she wanted it, she said "you can send it if you want" so i did, then a few minutes later after saying, it was a good pic, she went offline! can i get into trouble for this???

[cmbolton]

I believe you can get in trouble for this. Did the girl ever tell you her age? Even if she did, she could be underage and that's what you should have watched for. My personal belief is that you should not discuss matters like that online and you should NEVER send a pitcture like that (my opinion).

The person on the other computer could very well be a police officer.

I have grown up being abused and I really feel this was absolutely unnecessary. Maybe you should stay off of chatrooms for awhile so you don't feel compelled to talk about this and send pictures to someone you don't know, who could be a child or cop. I very much disagree with your actions (personal opinion) and I hope you see how much this could ruin you and potentially a child.

[Kaytii]

hello,

firstly, there may have been many reasons why she went offline, it may not have been linked to you. Why did you talk about these things to her, did she ever seem, slightly reluctant?..one word answers...saying "lol" alot...?...

If you knew that the girl was under 16, then yes. It is illegal. And as said above,they could have been a police man.

However, i will say one thing. Well done for at least registering what you did and not pretending it never happened. Keep in mind, people are sensitive and may not want to talk about your masturbation techniques...

[BigHugs]

i dont think u will get into trouble she was probaly underage but might have got embaresed so she just blocked you for a while ?