not sure how to start ive so much to say but a'l keep it short.
err....my name is tiffany, i was a member on this site for ages, but stopped needing it, ive been very ill in the past and stuggled with self harm for a long time, ive now been cut free for over a year, ive been really happy and coping well with support, but l8ly ive been struggling again, i want to hurt myself so badly, its all i can think about, the only thing stopping me is my little girl she means to much to me to send myself spierling (sp) again, :( i dont no what to do or who to turn to:( if any one could offer me advice id be very grateful, i kno this post is very selfish as i havnt even read what other people have wrote or tried to offer them advice, but i intend to,
i hope even one person can offer me any advice, i really need to talk to some1, i need to keep stopping myself.
Tiffany, x
Is there no-one you can talk to? A friend or a family member?
Maybe if you just disscuss this with someone close, you'll be put off.
Have you thought about seeing a counsellor? Maybe u could just have a
few sessions to sort your head out before you do anything to yourself.
Stay safe Tiffany, you don't need to hurt yourself, you've gone so long
without it.
Take Care,
Jayne xxx
Well content loves the silence, It thrives in the dark, With fine winding tendrils,That strangle the heart,
They say that promises sweeten the blow, But I don't need them, No, I don't need them...
Thank you both very much for your replies, , , , unfortunatly i dont have any support at the moment, ive been discharged (if thats the word) from the psychologist i was seeing,...ive considerd talking to family/friends, but they worry so much about me that i may become ill again, and the last thing i want is to upset them anymore or for anyone to think i cant cope being a mum, , i seen my theapist for a long time, maybe i could try and get an appt again without having to go throw my g.p and waiting lists ect, i'm not sure but its something i will think about.
thank u again i think i really needed that bit of support and encourgment,
I can't really add to what others have said. But i think it's really important that you try and get some help, make an appt with your psychologist and if you can't go to your GP and explain how hard you're finding it. Quite often if you've ben refered before they can rush it though.
I'm so sorry you're struggling. Congratulations on going so long!!
Life breaks most of us in the end, but afterwards some of us are strong in the broken places
~ Ernest Hemingway
Hello Tiffany im so sorry that your struggling and feeling really low. Your such a strong person i saythat because when i read your post the part about you not harming for a year i immediately wanted to say well done. The reason i think your a strong person is because you say that you got through it before so you have to believe that you can get through this again. I know its not easy but we are all here for you. Please dont give up i really dont want to see you get hurt your such a wonderful person and everyone cares about you so much. You have so much to live for you really do. Your post is not selfish at all. Please keep posting and talking to us.
