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Old 22-02-2016, 12:54 AM   #1
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Positive recovery post - 8 Years

It has been 2 years since I last posted on this website.

I have recently been struggling with my demons/mental health issues, and I am hoping that returning to this site will allow me to be able to open up and seek the help and support I need (instead of burying my head in the sand, which is something I have become an expert at).

However, I am extremely pleased to realise that my first post can be a positive one!

Today I have been SH (cutting) free for 8 years.

I didn't even realise until I logged in and looked at my last post - one made 2 years ago to the day about me being SH free for 6 years - as my mind has been on other things recently.

Although my struggle isn't over (and I have been self-destructive in other ways - my monsters come in many forms!) I thought that I should share this news as my first post as it is certainly something to celebrate! And I hope my milestone might serve as a beacon of hope for others who are struggling with SH.

I hope this post has helped, even in the smallest way. I never thought that I would make it this far.

But if I can do it, so can you!

NOW! Please enjoy this Nigel Thornberry Single Ladies GIF, just because!:




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and that I'll die yelling and laughing"

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Old 22-02-2016, 12:58 AM   #2
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Oh wow, 8 years!!! That is amazing, you should be so proud :) Thank you for sharing your achievement, it is inspiring to read.

Sorry things have been difficult recently; I hope you'll feel able to post about it and ask for support with whatever's going on.



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Old 23-02-2016, 03:10 AM   #3
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Congratulations :) it sounds like maybe you've even reached a point where keeping count isn't so important anymore for motivation. That is a huge accomplishment, I think even bigger than getting to eight years without harming.




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Old 02-03-2016, 04:18 AM   #4
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Thank you Pi.R^2!

And yes, PassedExpectations, you are right on there! I hadn't looked at it like that, but that is such a great way to look at things! Thank you very much for saying that :)

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Old 02-03-2016, 08:42 PM   #5
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That's amazing. Congratulations on such an accomplishment! Very inspiring.

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Old 03-03-2016, 07:31 PM   #6
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well done, this is really inspiring!



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Old 08-03-2016, 04:06 PM   #7
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This is amazing.
You should be so proud.
Wow 8 YEARS!!!



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Old 11-03-2016, 06:11 PM   #8
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Congratulations on 8 years!!! You are an inspiration! I'm sorry that you have been struggling with other demons. You are strong, Lovely. Don't forget that. You've already won one battle in the war.



"Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly."

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Old 13-03-2016, 09:55 PM   #9
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thats incredible, super proud of you <3



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There was some part of me that hurt so badly, that I wouldn't ever be able to forget it.
It faded but the memories could bring it back any second, keeping me in the moment.
It would never fully heal. I could never really be free. I could never really be fixed.
Now I just have to work out how to live whilst being broken.
I feel like I'm dying.


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