Why is it so complicated :(

[ShootingForTheStars]

There's no real purpose for this thread, I'm just finding things difficult.
Why is it that there's never an outcome to make everyone happy. I just want everyone to be happy but that's impossible. I can't go into specifics (I'm not like in terrible danger or anything btw:))
I was getting better but now all I can do is pretend I'm okay with the situation, be strong for my parents sake but I'm breaking and I don't know how long I can hold it in for. I know it's very difficult to help when I can't really say what the actual issue is, I'm just stuck in the middle of a big decision with the people I love and I just want everyone to be happy and okay but no matter what, someone will end up getting hurt and I can't stop that.
I don't know if I've posted this in the correct place, feel free to move or delete it if I've put it in the wrong place.

[Accidentally Abstract]

Hiya

I'm sorry to hear that you've been struggling with things lately & that you're finding the decision that you've got to make difficult. Sometimes, unfortunately, we all end up in these situations where we feel like we can't choose an outcome to make everybody happy. Perhaps, if it applies, you'll just have to go with the decision that is best for you & try to explain to anybody who gets upset or hurt in the process. We can't always keep everyone happy & it isn't our responsibility to do so either.

Do you have anybody outside of the situation who you feel able to open up to & talk to? Perhaps talking to somebody about it could make it easier - I sometimes find that talking things through with somebody else helps me to work out what the best thing to do is. You could always talk to us or a helpline or something if you felt able to - I know that the Samaritans have an option where you can email them as well, I think it's jo@samaritans.org.

I hope that you find some peace & manage to come to the best conclusion that you can & that those who may be upset or not react too well to the decision you reach are okay & calm down in time - if they love you, I'm sure they will.

Take care.

[Alyah]

i guess you're confused ,, you need a break, to think things through !
in my life i'd like to test all the possibilities before choosing
it might take time and u even might end up choosing wrong and that's okay you said it yourself, you can't make everyone happy, but also don't let your happiness rely on someone else, they'll find their way eventually.


one last thing, i learned that life is full with ups and downs, full of problems too, sometimes they might feel impossible to solve.
i'm not gonna say that nothing is impossible and that kinda stuff, all i know is that life gives you as much as you can handle, not more! there is no problem that you can't solve,, even if you fail sometimes failure teaches you more than success !!
If you were strong enough!
and strength is about one single rule
never give up!
i believe you can make anything possible as long as you never give up! that's all the strength you need..
good luck
hopefully this might help ^_^

[ShootingForTheStars]

Thank you both so much! You're replies have honestly really helped to clear the negative thoughts and think of more positive outcomes :)
I have spoken to an online friend about the situation and she has also really helped me with it all as well. At the moment, the situation itself seems okay, I'll just have to wait and see what happens in the future. Thankyou so much for the suggestions, I will absolutely bare those in mind and I really do appreciate it. Everyone on here is so lovely and helpful, so thankyou.

Alyah, you are absolutely right in what you say! In situations like this, I think it's very helped up I have someone to point out things like that, that I don't necessarily even think of at the time, thankyou. What you said really helped, it was very uplifting and I can't thank you enough!!
Thank you both again, right now the situation is okay and I really appreciate everything!