You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
Friends of friends so to speak it was a kind of a blind date not that I knew it! that's been my only relationship where we have been a couple!
I've had a few flings!
But basically I am forever alone
You guys can join Tinder with me :P
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
I went on for a laugh with one of my old friends, just to see if we could find any cuties on there. Alas, my boyfriend messaged me and we hit it off. We text for nearly a month and then we met up. We've been together for nearly three years now. :')
I met my bf on my first day of uni, he was the first friend I made.
We were friends for the first 2 years then drifted apart in the last.
We went to our graduation ball together and have been together since.
I actually had to sit and seriously think about this lol
ex g/f- high school it lasted like 4 months because she wasn't really that into me nor [at the time when I still identified as] girls in general
ex b/f- high school didn't last very long. he broke up with me because he didn't think it was working out.
ex-g/f- high school it lasted two and a half years, break up was beyond awful, tried to be friends for a bit there but that didn't happen, we no longer talk [I think I was dating her when I joined this site back in 08 actually?]
ex- g/f- we met on VampireFreaks and she came down to FL on a summer trip, dated off and on for a few years, eventually moved in with her in AR for a brief on again period. it didn't last as we reached a mutual agreement that we weren't a good fit with everything that was going on. we're still really close friends.
ex-b/f - ^also VampireFreaks we dated for like two years and at one point he had a RYL account as well, very messy relationship at the time, very very messy break up on both parts. however now we're close friends.
ex- b/f- He was dating my then best friend and "left her" for me. it was not a good situation and not one of my proudest moments tbh
ex -b/f- we went to middle school together and got met up a few years later. dated for a few months during which time he told me he was in love with me and then broke up with me over my needing to go IP at the time. he also had a daughter and I make a point to not date people who already have children because I'm really not comfortable with that.
current b/f- facebook. we met on FB through a mutual friend and started talking about a month before I moved back down to florida. hung out when I moved back here and have pretty much not been apart since. been together for nearly 4 years and he's one of my best friends
current g/f- Tumblr. we belong to the same fandom and were IMing back and forth because she was trying to help me figure out medicaid stuff, we started texting and it led to flirting and I eventually asked her out the day before v-day.
[I think all of my partners but two have been on the mentally-ill side of things and tbh it can go either way. the two I'm with now are very understanding of my mental health as they both struggle as well and it's honestly a more understanding dynamic then the two people I've dated that were not mental. but that's just me]
[I feel I should mention my b/f and I have an open relationship and that I'm polyamorous and that both partners know and are ok with the other and actually talk on a daily basis]
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“Because everything that goes around comes around. Maybe it's luck or maybe it's fate, but either way, it comes back around."
Rest in Love Sar-sis. I'll see you the next time around hopefully <3 12/11/92-05/18/16
AJs mommy ❤️ 11/26/17
Married to my best friend and Soulmate 3/5/18 ❤️💍
I don't know if my response qualifies but i'm still going ahead and type it anyway just to honor this nice and positive thread. :)
I met the love of my life after I had turned 16. We quickly became good friends despite the fact that she couldn't love me back the way I wanted her to.
She was about two years older than I was, and so cool and relaxed I wished I could be just like she was.
She was also very understanding and probably suspected all along how I felt about her despite me not telling her about any of it at the time.
I felt party ashamed of myself and how I was feeling.
It was only years later I wrote her a letter and openly confessed to her how much I loved her then, and how much I still love her today. She would become my muse for my writing and makes sometimes cameo apperences in my stories.
In my mind we were a couple back then, and sometimes I still think about her that way despite not seeing her in years. She's happily married now, so i'm feeling happy for her as well.
After she left ( she went back to her own native country ) I began to unravel that summer and things changed for me.
Anyway, so sorry if this doesn't qualify. It's one of the happiest memories I have so I wanted to share it with you. :)
Take care ya all!
Last edited by MariaOlivia85 : 05-04-2016 at 05:23 PM.
- Best birthday present ever.
- Which one?
- You letting me take care of you.
