She is, and has been for a long time as I understand it, but she has been treating me with no respect or consideration for my feelings pretty much from day one. I've been trying my best to give her distance lately, since she has told me she doesn't like to talk about things (after yelling at me for a few days without much explanation), but that is wrong too, because then I'm ignoring her. I've been trying to explain all this to her as well, and she doesn't want to hear it. Now I've broken things off with her, because it wasn't working at all and now she suddenly seems eager to talk. That is, after letting her so-called best friend text me from her phone, sounding like a 12 year old who didn't get his way, for some reason trying to piss me off, I suppose. He didn't succeed in anything but confirming I made the right decision to break it off with her. This all sounds like some high school drama and that is exactly what it's felt like for a while now. I'm too old for that shit and I've got better things to do. I tried my best and was perhaps a little too patient. Now I'm looking forward, what happened happened and I at least learned a few things about myself along the way.
Thanks for keeping in touch about this.
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