feeling lonely

[little star]

I know really know anyone on here any more I use to be on here years ago but had to leave, I came back on here but feel lonely

I also feel lonely at home as I have no friends that live need me and I'm home alone :(

how can I feel less alone

I feel silly writing this now

[BEVs]

Don't ever feeling silly writing how you feel in here. That's what it's for. I sometimes feel most alone when I have people around me, mostly if think it's because none of them actually know me. X

[little star]

Thanks bevs. I just feel out of of my deph on here now as I have been away. I just feel any think I say is nothing compared to other peoples prob's

I love it when my boyfriend is home but some time I just want to be on my own but he is the only person I really have these days :( xx

[BEVs]

Everybody has different issues, and deal with them in different ways. You shouldn't compare your problems or feelings with anyone's else's. At the end of the day we have all joined this site for whatever reason and are here to help each other and have someone to talk to, be with people that understand how we feel and don't judge us.
I know what you mean about your boyfriend, I feel safest when I am with my boyfriend, but he doesn't really get how I feel and why I feel like I do. I know I should probably open up to him more, but I am scared he won't get me, or I will scare him off, or he will just dismiss what I am saying and get all practical with me. So yeah, sometimes I don't want to be around him, and he doesn't understand why.....

[little star]

my boyfriend understands he use to be a self-harmer but likes to think he is always right ( like most men ) and we fight If I say anything diffent but I really love him but sometimes I just don't like him

[Just.dont.know]

I know what you mean. I have more freinds this year than before but i have never felt so alone in my life.

[FrogsandRainbows]

Hey Little Star,
I'm always here if you want to talk; feel free to message me anytime :)
F&R X

[little star]

thanks guys x

[nowhereman]

Hey you don't have to feel lonely, loneliness is a killer, you have all of us here now, ok. *sending lots of hugs* ps. I have a star tattoo as well :)

[random.swirls]

On RYL just jump in reply to posts etc you will soon feel like you never left!

In real life what about joining meetup.com and going along to a meet that interests you. Alternatively dependent on your age could you go to an evening class or find a hobby and meet people through there?

[nowhereman]

Ps. Here is my star tattoo, I'd love to see yours! Mine was inspired by my favourite rockstar, although his is different from mine as I wanted colour in mine.

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[tryingtolive]

Hi, Think back to pleasant times when you were not lonely and stop worrying about being lonely. This is often tough to do, but extending your interest to other thing's, Look for areas where you could help an individual, Like you do when you are here on RYL I hope this help's James

[little star]

thanks guy's

[little star]

also nikki when I can see the photo bit of ryl I will plus some pics up :) yours is really nice

[psychadelicflowergirl]

you don't need to feel alone, if you ever want to chat my inbox is open, always.
also, to be honest sometimes i feel most alone when i'm not alone. my husband can only do so much and sometimes i just wanna tell him to go the heck away lol