Where did it all go wrong

Myimmortalgirl · 19-10-2013, 10:59 PM

I am almost 30 and single., Where did my life all go wrong? I did not plan it this way and I did not want it to be like this. I feel so alone and unwanted and ugly and fat. Life sucks at the moment, I am so fed up and I just want it all to end.

teachit · 30-10-2013, 04:51 AM

Looking back and wondering why and where it all went wrong is just going to make anyone feel like poop. Looking forward and making small goals that will take you towards where you want to be is a better option. I know my life is definitely not what I planned and some of it sucks but some of it is better.

Please be gentle with yourself. Try to focus on what is good and figure out how to make the sucky stuff better. (((hugs)))

crazykat · 03-11-2013, 09:53 AM

I can relate to how you feel, it is hard and painful to look back at life and still feel so alone. The above poster is right torturing yourself over what you might have done wrong is not going to help. It is better to set yourself some goals aimed at the future of things that you want to change. Also your still young, there is still time. Learn to love yourself first

Myimmortalgirl · 13-11-2013, 09:36 PM

Well my first change is all my self harm stuff has gone, I want that out my life.

Tig · 14-11-2013, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Myimmortalgirl

Well my first change is all my self harm stuff has gone, I want that out my life.

That's a really fantastic change to make and I have every faith that you can do it. Go Kymmie! x

crazykat · 15-11-2013, 02:29 PM

That is a positive change to work towards, well done

teachit · 16-11-2013, 06:06 AM

AWESOME change!!!! Mkae sure you are gently with yourself !!!! Congrats on deciding to make a positive change!!

Myimmortalgirl · 18-11-2013, 03:01 PM

Three weeks clean :D And having my own space now is so much better coz I can go up there plug my ipod in and just chill.

teachit · 19-11-2013, 03:41 AM

Awesome!! So glad you are feeling good about this positive change and have a plan!!!

Myimmortalgirl · 19-11-2013, 12:26 PM

Thankyou. I am feeling a lot better.

teachit · 22-11-2013, 05:30 AM

YAY!!!

little-elf · 22-11-2013, 08:20 PM

Well done on being 3 weeks free, & I'm glad to hear you've got your own space, if you ever need a chat or to vent or anything feel free to PM me, keep up the awesome work :)