Almost everybody relapses at some point, it's part of recovery. It doesn't mean you have failed by any means. Do you know whats triggered this latest episode? Is there anything you would like to talk about?
Hi Laura. I never know what triggers it. I am totally out of touch with my feelings. Does that make any sense? I've been doing this for about 46 yrs. I'm 56 now.
Ive been where you are, its natural, it happens. If you need to talk, or someone to listen, You can email me at gjessaday@gmail.com Id love to hear from you. Stay strong.(:
Ive been where you are, its natural, it happens. If you need to talk, or someone to listen, You can email me at gjessaday@gmail.com Id love to hear from you. Stay strong.(:
Aww thanks! I'm okay at the moment. It's weird how one day it'll be really really bad, and the next day I'm okay. Awful weird. If it gets real bad again, I'll take you up on that. Thanks!
That depends... most of us have relapsed, but I'm guessing not many pull out strands of hair, which is odd since there's a medical term for hair pulling (Trichotillomania). I guess some people don't consider it a form of self harm, but rather another issue within itself.
Anyways, I can't relate to you on the hair part (mostly because I cut my hair so frequent, it's always short), but I can feel your pain on needing to do something and not being able to stop. IDK if you still feel the urge, but I highly recommend that you try to distract yourself from doing that. If it's the sensation you want to feel, do the rubber band trick where you wear a rubber band and you flick it on your wrist to feel some sort of "pain". I know it's still technically sh to some, but it would help you distract from your hair.
I have had so much trouble with my computer lately. Thank you, Olds, for your advice, but I'm absolutely sure I would find a way to pull WHILE I'm flicking the dang rubber band... I've known the medical term for it since I was a child. (I've always been a reader!) I understand it IS considered a form of self harm. Why would any girl want to do this to herself? I've been doing it since around age ten.
I even did it when I had extremely short hair, and even when I wore something on my head. (I would just reach underneath whatever I was wearing). I'm a stubborn one.
I don't have experience in hair pulling but your right it is a form of self-harm. I found a list of tips that could help that someone else with this condition has put together, here is a link. Have you ever received any support/counselling for the abuse you went through?
"Recovery is something that you have to work
on every single day and it's
something that doesn't
get a day off."
Hi crazykat. Thanks for the link!. Yes, I have received counseling regarding the neglect and abuse. I even had that EMDR, and I take meds for PTSD OCD and depression and generalized anxiety disorder.
Oh yes. Definitely. That's the reason I started going. Yes the link is very helpful. I like the suggestion about telling yourself "all my hair belongs on my head."
