I have read both of your comments, however, both of you have continued to insight the same behavior that I experienced in the chatroom. Offering support while being judgmental and taking a defensive standpoint at the same time.
This is my last post, if you want to discuss what happened in chatm feel free to PM me and we can discuss it privately (for reasons I have already stated clearly).
Otherwise, I wish you luck and hope you are able to get your issues sorted.
It is not conducive nor inviting any sort of desire to get support from either of you. You have stated your opinions on the matter and I have stated mine, there is nothing further to say here on that matter, clearly we dont agree on that, and there's no point to keep going on about it.
Hi there. Welcome to RYL. I'm sorry you had some trouble in the Chat rooms. You are more than welcome to PM any member of the chat team (green names) or email chatmods@recoveryourlife.com if you have had a problem.
If you are struggling to find Support you are more than welcome to email the RYL Supporters on support@recoveryourlife.com and they will do their best to reply as soon as possible, or you're more than welcome to PM me.
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No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
Hi there. Welcome to RYL. I'm sorry you had some trouble in the Chat rooms. You are more than welcome to PM any member of the chat team (green names) or email chatmods@recoveryourlife.com if you have had a problem.
If you are struggling to find Support you are more than welcome to email the RYL Supporters on support@recoveryourlife.com and they will do their best to reply as soon as possible, or you're more than welcome to PM me.
Yes I realize that is now for the best. Thank you for your response.
its obvious you are not listening to replies, so how about starting an R/V thread instead and get things off your chest?
I am listen to responses, however, its clear what the subject matter is of this forum, and to try and get me to talk about something else is really redundant isn't it? All the responses are continuations of one another and are argumentative. If I am seeking support on the issue of being unsupported in the chat, what other way can I respond to others who are only trying to defend that kind of behavior?
The reason why I didn't post it in a rant forum, is because I was seeking support while venting on the matter and it just turned into an all out battle as the people from the chats seemed to have followed me from the room and proceeded to defend themselves and others proceeded to take what I had said to a personal level and rant about that too. It's just a mess.
I'm just killing this thread right here. I don't feel I need to defend myself anymore then I already have been forced to as a result of inappropriate behavior in the chat, which flooded to inappropriate behavior in a forum. As far as this issue goes I will be contacting forum and chat moderators directly as they are the only people who are qualified to correct the issue, not the people who have decided to further irritate the issue.
you can be mature and bring it to the mods instead of having a go at people who are trying to help
if you are seeking support and also have a vent, it is often helpful to ask a specific question at the end, to direct the conversation. for example, you could've said something along the lines of "i went into chat to seek support, and in room 4 people were talking about other stuff. i felt x, y, z (note: do not say, they did or they made me feel x, y, z). can anyone give me advice about how to handle this if it happens again" and left out all the vindictive parts. also no vent here should be about how people here are awful, thats flaming, not venting
and the only person being innapproprate on the forum that i can see if you... though i agree with your decision to close this thread
this is my magical medicine cabinet. Left to right they contain: courage, hope, calmness, and strength.
The magical part: They NEVER run out, so borrow some any time you want.
Yep, definitely somebody please put us all out of our misery and kill the FUCKING thread ... or maybe at least move it to the 'whinging about the forums' section (or whatever it's called).
And the illusion of love is the only promise of defence, and even that will crumble.
