32 year old bisexual ? Question for ladies...ADULT
I am kinda embarrassed writing this, but I figured this is probably the best place to ask fellow ryl friends about this..
I am 32 years old and wondering, is it possible that I could be bisexual ? I know this sounds so stupid, but I have always been attracted to women, I just think we are such beautiful beings. Do not get me wrong, I love men , and really am attracted to them ,but I have never ,ever had a relationship with a man tht has been, fulfilling. The things I like, normally don't include male parts so much..(blushes)
Don't get me wrong, I do love intercourse, but I believe I could live without ..well..his...you know lol
I have only dated one woman, and this was when i was 19. She was butch, and I am def more fem. although, I kinda am attracted to women that are like me, feminine .
The thing is, idk what to do, how to meet someone, or how to talk about this with a girl I could potentially like..
Has anyone been through this...anyone have any advice?
Hey, I have pretty much just gone through the phase of realisation('omg, I'm not that interested in..*man parts*..omg...'). Honestly, I think that if this is how you feel, then it's perfectly okay. Whether you like men or women or both..it shouldn't be idk viewed as something 'bad' or 'wrong' or 'impossible' if you get what I mean.
As for meeting people, hmm I'm not entirely sure about that, especially as I am WAY younger than you*blushes and feels like a little kid :3*.
^I think that it should be easier for you to do things your way because of your age(parents and other stuff shouldn't be a problem!). I am pretty sure that there are LGBT support groups where you live(if there's one where I live, there must be one there too!) you could go there, see if they host any parties/activities/pride parade etc That's a nice way of meeting people! :)
Thank you for responding to me. :) no need to blush :)
It is just all rather shocking . I am now supposed to be a settled down mother and wife, and here I am not even sure what is up anymore ! It's very frustrating. I didn't want to go into lgbt forums and be a problem or some weirdo lady asking retarded questions ,so I started here. :) thanks again for replying..I hope I figure this all out
Omg you have desribed perfectly what I am feeling, I am out to friends and parents. I can never see myself with a man it just makes me feel physically sick.
Hey I'm 33 and I don't have a sexuality, I just like whoever I like. I mean at the moment I am obsessed with a male rock star, kind of seeing a guy and kind of have feelings for my best friend who is female. You know as she said to me, you can't help who you crush on and in my own opinion I don't believe it has to be as simple as "I will only like men" or "I will only like women" you fall for the person, not their gender. I identify as straight but I actually have more female celeb crushes than male! And I don't see anything wrong with that. Just follow your heart, you don't need to know for certain that you're any particular sexuality. It's all just labels anyway. Good luck, I hope this has helped a bit and not jut confused you even more. Pm if you ever want to chat xx
Hey-
I would say make a gaydar account- Gaydargirls.co.uk is a site that you can make a profile on and look for other women in your area- its not purely a dating site, a lot of people on there are looking to make friends and there are plenty of women your age on there and a lot older/younger also. It would also be a good way of meeting people in your area that are involved in LGBT activities and generally meeting the LGBT community in your area. I met my wife there 6 years ago and we are just about to celebrate our first year wedding anniversary-
If you ever want to chat about sexuality, although I was 19 when I figured out I was gay- it literally struck me out of nowhere and I hadn't suspected it.... I am also a femme woman who likes femme, so dont get sucked in to the belief that because you are femme you should go with a butch woman x
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hi there, I dont have any words of wisdom for you as am going through something similar, but wanted you to know that I read your post and am thinking of you. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk more:) take care
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