Hey guys,
Lottie is in need of lots of hugs and support right now. She's going through a rough patch and could really do with nice comments reminding her of how amazing and wonderful she is!
Lottie,
You are an amazing person that has been through so much that no person should have to go through but the thing is you have fought so hard and have got through it! You have so much strength and courage to keep fighting and keep on going! I know right now it seems so impossible for you but you can get through it. I know you can love! You have to believe in yourself. You've been through so much already so you just need to keep on fighting a little bit more.
Love you sooo much! And I hope you know that there are so many people out there that are rooting for you to get through this and who are there for you!
Remember you can always pm or text or call me. Love you soooo much. *hugs*
I just wanted to *Bump* this thread again! Lottie is still really struggling and really needs lots of *hugs* right now. I know theres lots of people on RYL who love and care for her so please leave some warm messages and let her know how much she means to us!
Last edited by Fire Fly : 25-04-2013 at 08:40 PM.
Ballerina123 - My lovely superstar
Call me R -
The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time - Abraham Lincoln
Hey Lottie, we haven't spoken much but I've seen you around a lot and you seem like a lovely person who has a lot up deal with. I'm sorry things are so tough but try to hold on and remember that one day it won't all be as terrible.
We are all here for you if you need us.
Take care.
Lottie.
I don't think I've ever come across someone quite so brave and generous. Everytime I take a little sneaky peek at your blog I'm just in shock at a) how bad things are for you, and b) how flipping amazing you are for the way you cope with things and the way you are so very selfless and thoughtful and kind and just like ALL the nice adjectives.
If there's anything Jodie or I can do, please just let us know. Although you seem unlikely to ask, so Tinkles- if you think there's anything you think Jodie or I can do to help, can you give me a text? I'm good at Plans. If you need a Plan for getting out of things and finding somewhere safe, then I'm your man. Even though I'm a girl.
We're really worried about you. Take care; you're far too wonderful to lose.
You are such a wonderful person, please know that we are here for you always. Jenna is right, you are a strong and amazing person. You are a lovely person and we are here for you no matter what you are facing. You're always here for us, you're allowed to lean on us too xxx
Lottie, you're an absolute star and you know where I am if you need me. I'm sorry that things are so bad for you right now and I hope that they can get better. You take care of yourself and know that you are a valued, loved person on here. <3
Lottie, I'm sorry things are so difficult for you. You really are such a lovely person, and you don't deserve any of what you're going through. Please look after yourself as much as possible and remember we're all here for you <3
I can only echo what the others have said. You are such an amazing person and although you don't see it right now, I know it's true and everyone else knows it's true too :)
I'm sorry things are so bad for you right now but you are one of the strongest people I know. You have kept on fighting this far, why give up now?
One day you will win this fight.
Keep strong love & let me know is there's anything I can do.
Email or PM at any time x
How can the light that burned so brightly
Suddenly burn so pale?
This thread is so lovely, thank you Tinkles for starting it and thank you to all of you who have replied. My brain is mush right now otherwise I would do a better reply to you all but I just wanted to say thank you. It really means a lot <3 xxx
Lottie, you are a very special person and I wish somuch that i could take all this awfulness away for you. You deserve so much better.
Lots of love sweetie xx
We've never properly spoken before, Lottie. But I've seen a lot of your posts and I've also seen how a lot of members think you're wonderful and rightly so. Please keep fighting, and know that everyone here supports you all of the way *squishes* xxx
Hello lottie
I'm sorry your having such a hard time. Your a genuinely lovely and caring person when I first came on here, you was the first person to message me and to be honest I dont think I would of had the courage to come back if it wasn't for you friendliness and kindness. I'm here if you ever need to talk
Take care
Lotty xxx
I agree with all the wonderful things said about you Lottie. I love you very much sweetheart and it breaks my heart seeing you in so much pain. Remember people are always there for you when you want them there and when you don't feel like talking. I am so very lucky to have such a wonderful best friend like you. You can get through this painful time sweetheart. Keep talking, even if it's only small doses right now <3 *lots of love, h hugs and pixie dust on their way to you* ;) xxxxx
I've read some of your blog sweet and I'm so sorry to hear how intense things are, please know we are here for you. How are you feeling today? Please stay safe, keep reaching out for support, you're doing a great job and I'm proud of you xx
Thank you once again for all the lovely comments, I really appreciate it. <3
Aimee, sorry I didn't get a chance to answer your question yesterday. I am not brilliant. They would have me in hospital at the moment but they literally have no psych beds that they are available to access within this part of the country which is completely madness so it's really hard. I don't think hospital will help but in other ways I feel like I don't know where else we go from here. x
Could they put you in hospital a little further afield perhaps?
I know you don't want to go into hospital, but it sounds like they're quite rightly very concerned for your safety, and maybe a break and being looked after would help a bit?
That sounds really confusing, Lottie. It must be hard to feel in a place where you know you should possibly be in hospital but there are no beds. In the mean time, what support are you being offered?
I know it's not much help but ty to keep yourself busy so it doesn't hurt so much. Things are horrible now but that doesn't mean that they won't be in the future and you really do deserve to be feeling much better than this.
Lottie, you mean so much to so many people and everyone wants you to get through this! Please don't forget that!
Your CMHT are being arseholes like usual and preventing you going to the refuge but maybe they have got proper reasons? I know it doesn't make sense but hopefully they will lift the block soon so you can go and try piecing your life back together. Please don't give up!!!
<3 xxxx
Ballerina123 - My lovely superstar
Call me R -
The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time - Abraham Lincoln
