Go to the previous page, plenty of questions.
If you want to make comments like that then please do so on a vent thread, we cant help you anymore.
If you had an eating disorder and heart condition and all these problems etc. I think this boy would be the least of your worries. We can't help you with him.
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Yess I have bigger problems, but I don't care about them
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
To be honest, I am tempted to contact the school. You need more help than any of us, or a damn 15 year old boy, can give you. You need to speak to an adult. So, are you going to tell a parent, teacher or a doctor what is going on?
You need to talk to someone professional like a doctor or a teacher at school. The longer you leave it the worse it will get. I did nothing about my problems when they started when i was 15 and only went to a dr at 19 because a friend dragged me there. I can't say for definate, but I think I could have coped with my problems better and had a better life if I had seen someone sooner about it.
Take our advice, stop lying and stop being obsessed over this boy, he won't magically make everything better.
"Never be a spectator of unfairness or studpidity. The grave will supply plenty of time for silence." Christopher Hitchens
'When words fail, music speaks'
I am transsexual and homoromantic and proud to be.
Sometimes I think people just have to accept that repeatedly asking something of someone that they aren't willing to do simply isn't going to yield any positive results. It's like constantly asking a dog to be a cat, it just isn't going to happen. Sometimes if you can't change something then you just have to just accept it. Sometimes there just has to be a cut off point where you say that's enough.
So much help/advice/support has been offered here, whether someone takes it, acts upon it, is another matter.
I'm not advocating stepping back from helping people, I'm simply saying that sometimes you can't help people in the way you thought you could.
Personally I had boy problems when I was 15. I never gave up hope, I grew up, and eventually THE BOY I was obsessed with flew to the US to see me. We had a beautiful year-and-a-half engagement and got married. I still love him to death. I'm trying to encourage Ashlee because I can relate to her. Even if she is lying... well, I lied on the internet until I was 17.
I'm not out to fix Ashlee at this point, just to give the girl a little encouragement. She does need that.
Once I get on my laptop and figure out how, though if someone would PM me and explain how I'd be very grateful, to report this complete farce of a thread. It is a disgrace and I genuinely thought more of RYL but am seriously questioning that now because no one has stepped in and closer this with or without Ashleee-whatever-TROLL wants.
Genuinely disgusted.
Ashlee, if you want another pile of crap thread filled with a story with more holes then a sieve please atleast have the common courtesy of labelling/ titling it:
I'm a pathological liar, help me.
Atleast that way we will hopefully not have people driven to needing support themselves BE AUSE of this thread and the insensitivity their kindness is being treated with.
It ate my final reply. Basically to all of the wonderful and selfless people who gave so much in this thread to someone incapable of appreciating it so much sound and incredibly advice, I really hope you all take some time and give yourselves the same compassion and love and self care. It was not wasted advice, it has had an impact on me for one, and you are all amazing.
It ate my final reply. Basically to all of the wonderful and selfless people who gave so much in this thread to someone incapable of appreciating it so much sound and incredibly advice, I really hope you all take some time and give yourselves the same compassion and love and self care. It was not wasted advice, it has had an impact on me for one, and you are all amazing.
Thankyou for such an absolutely lovely post. Sorry to bump this thread but I needed to thank you, I don't even know if I was included in this but it is still so sweet and I agree. :) Remember to give some compassion to yourself, too!
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Ashlee, can you do this in a R/V please?
There's nothing we can do to help you with him...
I don't want to get angry and I'm trying to be understanding, but it's hard when you don't listen to us...
If you need to talk to someone about your love issues, try Childline: http://childline.org.uk . Most people think it is just for children being abused, but really you can talk about anything you like and they'll listen. You don't have to call them either! You can make an account and talk online 1-to-1 with a counsellor. I've used them and can say they are very lovely and helpful :)
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Do you think you might call them?
You could also contact the RYL Supporters by clicking here, and they'll email you back. I know that's something you said you'd tried before.
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Hey sorry to bump this thread and being a hypocrite by saying that I'm done posting, but I just wanted to suggest this amazing thread on the distractions board (:
it's song lyrics that relate to how you're feeling. I think it would be a great place for you, Ashlee, since it is specifically for lyrics. People will be able to relate to them when they're expecting them. They're kind of useless to talk and ask for advice with.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
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