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red_ry · 30-01-2013, 12:05 PM

A few people pretend to "care". In reality they've given up on me a long time ago. Even if they really wanted to pull me out, I'm to far in this hole for them to reach me. This book of matches is all that really brings me comfort.

hellokittymad · 30-01-2013, 12:15 PM

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A few people pretend to "care". In reality they've given up on me a long time ago. Even if they really wanted to pull me out, I'm to far in this hole for them to reach me. This book of matches is all that really brings me comfort.

why do you feel like this?

red_ry · 30-01-2013, 04:40 PM

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why do you feel like this?

For the reasons listed in my first post.

hellokittymad · 30-01-2013, 04:42 PM

sorry >.< I didn't read it properly!

burning yourself [what i'm assuming you mean, correct me if i'm wrong] is not a good solution to the way you're feeling. Others do care, no one pretends they care. *hugs*

red_ry · 30-01-2013, 05:30 PM

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burning yourself [what i'm assuming you mean, correct me if i'm wrong] is not a good solution to the way you're feeling.

Yep, that's what I was doing.

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Others do care, no one pretends they care. *hugs*

No one would do that? What is your evidence of that?

Alone and Scared · 30-01-2013, 05:44 PM

What has made you think that people are pretending to care, rather than caring? xx

red_ry · 30-01-2013, 11:18 PM

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burning yourself [what i'm assuming you mean, correct me if i'm wrong] is not a good solution to the way you're feeling.

You really think I don't know that it's a bad thing to do. I really have no other outlet. Don't really care anymore.

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What has made you think that people are pretending to care, rather than caring? xx

When the people that tell you they are concerned watch you slip deeper and deeper into hell.

Alone and Scared · 31-01-2013, 02:51 PM

Feeling that way can make everything seem so much more difficult can't it. What would you like those people to do? xxxx

brokenbutterflies · 31-01-2013, 08:21 PM

in my experience, it may come off as people dont care when in reality, they just dont know what to do. Ive come to realize that. For my family and the few friends i have, theyre just at a loss on what to do. theyve never dealt with anything like this. maybe thats whats going on? I know it may seem as if you have nobody, and that they are "watching you slip deeper and deeper into hell" but what do you want them to do? you should tell them, because people arent mindreaders, they dont know what your feeling unless you tell them.

good luck,
kristin xx

PassedExpectations · 01-02-2013, 02:08 AM

exactly that^

also, right now in what you're writing you're sounding argumentative and people will often take that to mean that you don't want their help, or don't think that you can be helped. im not saying that that is how you actually feel, but if that is what people are perceiving, they may really think that it is futile to help you because you want to just fall apart on your own. if people feel like you are pushing them away, and they don't know what to do anyways, most of the time they'll pull back...