How I interpreted what Sarah said was the her age might explain her immaturity not she is immature because of her age. Maturity does vary from one person to another, if someone is being quite immature and they are young their lack of experience and thus their age might be behind that but that is not to say that all people of the said age are immature.
How about a different tact.
Ashlee, there is this person I know. She is going through a really tough time at the moment. She is pinning all her hope of this young boy to pull her out of it but this lad isn't really that interested in her, plus he is young and probably not the best suited to helping this girl properly. I think really she needs to talk to a grown up but I'm not sure what to say to her to make her feel comfortable talking to them. Is there anything you can suggest to help her?
she also needs to know how she feels when shes arround him
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
well we all no im not the clearist preson to understand, i live with my mum because my dad kiked me out cos i cut
nit because of him trying to kill me, i live with my both till i was 3, then they split and i was going back an forth till i was 9, than i lived with my dad till he found out, now i live with my mum
I think really she needs to talk to a grown up but I'm not sure what to say to her to make her feel comfortable talking to them. Is there anything you can suggest to help her?
Can you try and think of an answer to this part Ashlee,rather than concentrating on the rest of the post.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Can you try and think of an answer to this part Ashlee,rather than concentrating on the rest of the post.
i have answerd that bit, twice
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Can you answer the other questions please? Again, especially the ones Alone and scared and Cryptic. raised.
yeahh thats true
can u thingyy them from me so i can see them all please
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
No you didn't. You concentrated on the boy part and gave answers for that. The part people want an answer to is the bit about advising someone to tell a grown up.
So,what would you say to someone if you thought they should speak to an adult about things going on in their life?
can u thingyy them from me so i can see them all please
What?
Ashlee, did he try to kill you or not? As much as I gave you the benefit of the doubt, I'm not buying any of this anymore, I'm sorry.
I mean this in the nicest, most sincere way possible, I think that you're lying and you want attention here because you're lacking it in life. Maybe that's why you cling to Sean so much? I think that you're clinging on to the first person who shows care and attention to you because you're lacking it hun. And no, it's not something to be ashamed of, you can get help for this. Please try talking to your parents?
Sorry for being rude, I tried to be nice.
Also, please don't ignore this post Ashlee.
My dad threw a thing at me, it was eather a big photo or a big mirror, its kinda foggy, but it us my first memory of me being a child, most people don't remember things from when they where 2-3 but this is the only thing I remember, my next momory is starting school age 4
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
Right. I have just read through FIFTY ONE pages of your 'please help me' thread that was locked.
On the 1st of December at 10.35pm - post number 1010 you wrote....
'my real real mom died from comitting suiside'
At 10.38pm - post number 1015 you wrote....
'killing herself was the only way out for her'
Ashlee, I think you are a 'real' 15 year old girl, I think your name is Ashleigh but I think that your story is false. I think you're using this forum to try to fill a gap that is missing in your 'real life'....
Please can you start from the beginning and tell us the truth. People on here do care, they do understand and they can support you. You can have 5 wonderful replies from people who care about you, you don't need to have pages and pages of messages in order to show that others care about you.....
Ashlee, we can only help you if we know the truth, and right now, I don't believe that you have told us the truth.
-“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom.” Anais Nin-
Allie, Mutt, Great Grandma, Hope and Humbug. I love you and miss you all. xx
Wow...this whole thread it's just like...facepalm x 10.
Okay all I have to say is:
1. TELL AN ADULT, NO EXCUSES. JUST DO IT.
2. Don't place so much importance on relationships, you need to learn to handle yourself whether you are with a boy or not. Boys are not the end of the world for gods sake.
3. You are not owed anything on this forum, the people who have been trying very hard to support you are trying to help because they want to. They honestly just want to help and you are being rather ungrateful for all the support in my opinion.
This thread is just getting really frustrating honestly....
"Some people get by, with a little understanding. Some people get by, with a whole lot more."
Right. I have just read through FIFTY ONE pages of your 'please help me' thread that was locked.
On the 1st of December at 10.35pm - post number 1010 you wrote....
'my real real mom died from comitting suiside'
At 10.38pm - post number 1015 you wrote....
'killing herself was the only way out for her'
Ashlee, I think you are a 'real' 15 year old girl, I think your name is Ashleigh but I think that your story is false. I think you're using this forum to try to fill a gap that is missing in your 'real life'....
Please can you start from the beginning and tell us the truth. People on here do care, they do understand and they can support you. You can have 5 wonderful replies from people who care about you, you don't need to have pages and pages of messages in order to show that others care about you.....
Ashlee, we can only help you if we know the truth, and right now, I don't believe that you have told us the truth.
You specifically pointed out that your mum committed suicide - are you now saying this isn't true?
I'm really not sure what to believe but one thing is certain and that is that you really, really need PROPER support. You need professional attention. It's very important and you won't get better without it.
We know that you are reading this Ashlee, could you please reply?
I think, you may have thought that you needed to add bits into your story to get replies, because you wanted to be heard. I think that you ended up adding so many bits in that you lost track of what you had and hadn't said.
I don't think 'all' of this is a lie and I still think you need support. I'm not angry or anything like that, but we can only try to be of use to you if you are honest with us. I think everyone would say the same thing, we can only suggest things that could help if we know what is actually going on for you.
-“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom.” Anais Nin-
Allie, Mutt, Great Grandma, Hope and Humbug. I love you and miss you all. xx
We know that you are reading this Ashlee, could you please reply?
I think, you may have thought that you needed to add bits into your story to get replies, because you wanted to be heard. I think that you ended up adding so many bits in that you lost track of what you had and hadn't said.
I don't think 'all' of this is a lie and I still think you need support. I'm not angry or anything like that, but we can only try to be of use to you if you are honest with us. I think everyone would say the same thing, we can only suggest things that could help if we know what is actually going on for you.
lies - blemia , mum - suiside
i do self harm, i do/did have anarexia and pica, my dad kiked me out
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
