thinking your just trying to outdo your other thread with the number of replieds to your "story"
what does that mean
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
And you don't think thats a problem worth dealing with?
well yeahh cos it aint right that hes able to do that to me, but i dont think theres anything i can do about it, i am who i am, no one can change that
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
it means you like to drag out your threads, with "new" information coming in dribs and drabs.
It makes you feel better the longer your threads become. Without even thinking of the number of other people making threads which may get 4 replies if they are lucky. You want the most amount replies possible.
(Which i do acknowledge im playing into your little fantasy, so with this i am out, i dont care who your latest crush is to be honest)
okay, what does that have to do with anything? do you really expect us to give a productive reply to that? I suppose we could ask why you would let him do anything that you want and tell you how that could be dangerous. But you'll just brush off all advice and concern in the name of "love".
it means you like to drag out your threads, with "new" information coming in dribs and drabs.
It makes you feel better the longer your threads become. Without even thinking of the number of other people making threads which may get 4 replies if they are lucky. You want the most amount replies possible.
(Which i do acknowledge im playing into your little fantasy, so with this i am out, i dont care who your latest crush is to be honest)
u all say stuff like this ^
if u dont like my forums they y r u here - dont take this the wrong way, im just woundreing y u r all here still comenting
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
okay, what does that have to do with anything? do you really expect us to give a productive reply to that? I suppose we could ask why you would let him do anything that you want and tell you how that could be dangerous. But you'll just brush off all advice and concern in the name of "love".
well atleast u know that i know its not right
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
as great as RYL is, maybe you should look into forms specialized for relationship issues. This site is great for dealing with SH and other mental health problems and can also help with relationship issues, but as your threads show they may not help to the extent that you need.
here are some links to forums specifically for teen issues and relationships. I hope they're helpful to you
This is a thread, on a forum. There are a fair few other threads by different people on this forum, who probably all appreciate this help more than you.
This is a thread, on a forum. There are a fair few other threads by different people on this forum, who probably all appreciate this help more than you.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
It really does amaze me that some people have purposefully followed a member to their new thread to have a go at them.
If youre posting to offer some sort of support that is fine, if you are not then I suggest you go off and find something else to entertain you.
There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you.
But there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.
I aint no abacus but you can count on me.
I still think the world would be better off without me Some people, when they hit rock bottom, they dont have that person in their lives to pick them back up The mirror can lie, it doesnt show you whats on the inside. I dont think im fixed, people think that your like a car in a body shop, you go in, they fix you and your out, you work like your brand new, it doesnt work like that at all Sometimes i dont understand my self. Im not strong enough and im tired of pretending i am.
well yeahh cos it aint right that hes able to do that to me, but i dont think theres anything i can do about it, i am who i am, no one can change that
You're wrong. You can change who you are and how you feel and how you think. Nobody can do it for you. They can help you but you are in control of how you respond to things and you are in charge and in control of your reactions. There's little point in being defeatist and giving up because it won't help you and it won't help anybody else.
People are trying to help you, Ashlee, and you are responding more than you did in the beginning, it's just hard when other people are asking for support and get very few replies. Please, please consider the impact you are having on other people on this forum if you are responding to posts with one word answers. I understand that it's hard when people on here are being negative but you've been offered wonderful advice so please listen to it and take on board how everybody is trying to help you.
1. You're 15 and already liked two people, therefore showing you can move on. Obsessing about boys is not going to be healthy and self harming to get them to go out with you is not going to work.
2. You really need to get some sort of help. Teacher, counsellor or GP.
This is out of control.
3. The ONLY person who CAN help you, is YOU.
You have to ask for the help, and also it is you that makes changes to your life. No one else.
Yes we may need some help, but if you don't change things....nothing will change.
'Coincidence...it's what the Universe does for...fun.'
The Doctor
sorry if my "entertaining" comment was out of line. I do want to offer you support and it's been more entertaining in a sense of searching to find something that you'll be able to actually apply to yourself. The extreme amount of replies and active members viewing this thread back this up.
Firstly, I'd just like to say that I've read most of your posts 'ashlee' and it's shocking how many responses you have had from people. Further to that, you don't seem to have acknowledged any of the help or support you've been given or at least be thankful. Most of the things you've said don't fit together at all and it's just hard to believe that you're being genuine. There are people on this forum who are actually looking support and are willing to accept/consider advice from others, whereas you seem to be posting for help, yet not acting on anything anyone says. From what I can see, you are selfish. If you're not going to accept help from other people, then go and post on r/v where people aren't going to reply. It's extremely frustrating (and I know from past experience) when people put together an eloquent and hopefully useful response in a thread and it just gets brushed over. Even if you don't want to take the advice given, it would at least be polite to thank those who have given advice or show some sort of appreciation.
You have received so much support from people on this website in a matter of days. It's sad because there are people out there who genuinely need and will take and be thankful of the support they receive from this website.
Founder of: Capstealy avoidance method 3 aka The Steph Da First Method The picture above was kindly created by Sentient Treacle (leafy girl)
Oh and if you're going to tell people who have genuinely tried to give support to 'stfu' then maybe you shouldn't have created the thread in the first place.
Founder of: Capstealy avoidance method 3 aka The Steph Da First Method The picture above was kindly created by Sentient Treacle (leafy girl)
