my best friend got sent away!

[BoundNoMore]

My best friend got sent to a long term treatment facility today.
I feel so... lost, alone, overwhelmed, hurt, just... everything... I don't know. It is making me physically ill.
It was want she needed. Her cutting was out of control, but... I feel like I lost her. I mean... I know logically that I didn't...
she is getting help so I won't lose her, but it is still so hard!!! Why is this so hard????

[PassedExpectations]

i'm sorry i dont have much advice for you... i was on the other side of this situation with one of my friends, i was the one sent away....

can you write letters? writing to my friends was really helpful when i was in the hospital (i had one friend who i wrote to everyday, it helped me sort through things) and i loved recieving his letters and messages back... it helped me still feel connected, and i think that it helped him feel connected too...