I'm out of control

[miffy]

I don't know how to make myself happy.
I know what I want to do, where I want to be in certain aspects of things ie. how I look and feel, but have no idea where to start, and how to make the change.

I have no idea where my life is going. I need a proper career, with prospects and decent money. I do love my current job, but there is no chance of progressing or earning anymore.

I feel like I'm stuck in this horrible body, just existing. I'm missing out on so much, because I'm totally unhappy in myself.

I really don't know what to do?

[Rogalsgirl]

Are you saying that you know in your head what you want to do, but you don't have the actual motivation to do so? Or you know what you want in life but you have no idea of how to get there? Try organizing a list of the things that you need/want in life, and put them in order of importance to you. Then, write another list of the steps you need to follow to achieve your goals. Keep the list posted somewhere you will see everyday. Does this help? Or...am I totally off?

[miffy]

It's a bit of both really.

I know I want to be fit and slim and healthy, but have no motivation whatsoever, I've got to the point where I just think what's the point, I'm never gonna get there!
I'm so self concious, and hate even walking to work cos I feel like people are looking at me.

I know I want to earn more money and do something I really enjoy, but unsure what, or how to go about getting that.

Does that make sense?