Divorce :(

yakerdeets · 31-12-2010, 04:06 AM

my mom and my step dad have been married for 17 years. my step dad and were pretty close and he basically like my father to me. dont get me wrong my daddy is my daddy but my step dad and i were tight once upon a time and he has been there for me through thick and thin as well as helping me discover who i am as a person. he taught me how to fight, how to stand up for myself, how to not be afraid to be me, how to use tools properly, the list could go on and on.

he just sprung this on my mom and i and shes a mess she feels like her world is coming to an end and that her world is falling down around her and i feel so bad and i wish there was something i could do. but like always there isnt anything i can do and i just wish i could give her the comfort she needs. she is worried about financial situations and whether or not we will be able to keep the house etc and all right before new years.

everyone is thinking there might be another woman, i dont think he has already cheated but he might have a certain someone on his mind.

this still just totally sucks. i cant imagine my life with out him (i cant imagine how my mom feels). and i cant imagine him not walking me down the isle someday and it sucks it sucks really bad. yet im left with mixed emotions and i dont think i know how i really feel at this point. it hasnt really hit me. im just going to try to make my mom's new years the best it can be with out him

yakerdeets · 31-12-2010, 05:28 PM

everyone cant believe it. everyone is angry with my step dad. everyone thinks he is selfish and in the wrong. afterall he is in the wrong. the only one that is happy with this is him. even his family is angry with him about this. he is being a selfish basterd. there is no such thing as the perfect woman and the perfect relationship. same goes with women to men. you can find the "whole package" and STILL there will be something wrong with the other person and the relationship. im so mad, but at the same time i am still indifferent. dont know when it will hit me, i just hope it hits me when my mom is not so much of a mess.

yakerdeets · 23-01-2011, 10:33 PM

ya know, im angry at my step dad because now all of a sudden he wants to play family. funny thing is he never wanted to play family before. but now that he doesnt have to live with us and he doesnt have to deal with our "annoying" daily habits, we should be a family BUT he still doesnt want to work things out with my mom.
he led her on, led me on to believe that he wanted to make things work and possibly come back. but nope, he doesnt know what he wants (not us) and he just wants to be friends....
my answer to that is WHAT ARE WE 16?!?!?! i he wants to go through with the divorce, there is no friends, there is no family there is no us! just him and us, thats it.
hes a dumbass, the whole situation is ****ed up!