Ahhh I have had many a friend like that. I know what you mean when you love her but sometmes the best thing is to get space and spend time with other people who do want to listen to you. It's not easy to 'cut' people out of your life as it were, but it is a lot healthier (at least I think it is). *hugs*
"John, being brave is going where no man has gone before and with Lizzy Stark, that is NOT what you'll be doing!" - Aunt Polly.
“I told him I was going to betray you, and betray Lyra, and he believed me because I was corrupt and full of wickedness; he looked so deep I felt sure he'd see the truth. But I lied too well. I was lying with every nerve and fiber and everything I'd ever done...I wanted him to find no good in me, and he didn't. There is none.”
I think thats best hunny otherwise you'll spend all your energy on her and not on keeping yourself safe etc.
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"John, being brave is going where no man has gone before and with Lizzy Stark, that is NOT what you'll be doing!" - Aunt Polly.
“I told him I was going to betray you, and betray Lyra, and he believed me because I was corrupt and full of wickedness; he looked so deep I felt sure he'd see the truth. But I lied too well. I was lying with every nerve and fiber and everything I'd ever done...I wanted him to find no good in me, and he didn't. There is none.”
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Yeahh. Like, you know, I think, "I love you to bits but if I get that involved with you it's just going to bring me down as well". She used to self harm for ages and if I did it and tried to talk to her like she would to me she'd get really angry and say I was stupid for doing it. And then everyone got angry at me, so I stopped telling people when I was doing it. But that's another story haha (:
Mari I'm sorry! I dunno why I just disappeared, things just got difficult andI found the internet was maknig me feel worse. I miss the old gang too :( You need to get on facebook Mari! How has uni been this last few days? Hope you are feeling less lonely!? That's great about that back, hopefully will continue to get better, especially with new doctors helping you :) Are you enjoying your course? My try joining some societies if you haven't already? I know what you mean about going out and being in pain and worrying about being ditched by the others - I was the same when I first started uni, but even just going out for an hour means that you're socialising with them more. Just always make sure you got enough money to get a taxi home when you're ready to. Have you spoken to them about your back problems?
Kitkat, I'm sorry you're having such problems. I'm not sure what to suggest but to try and move on and not dwell on it too much. How is life in general for you these days?
Pom (Beccy? sorry I always forget) How are you liking you (not so) new home now? Have you got used to MK yet? I also used to have the same with the depression coming on, but mine used to come everyday at about 6pm! lol. I have no idea why these things happen! Very strange. Hope you're ok.
*hugs* rowie and daniella
Where's Carrie these days? Hope she's ok
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Oooh jamie oliver... Wish I had his skills in the kitchen!
I didn't realise your husband had depression too. That must be really hard for you all. Is there a reason why things are so tense? Maybe try burning some lavender oil to make everything calm... Hmm that sounded stupid, but it does help sometimes
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And you're my obsession, I love you to the bones...
Aww hun, try not to worry too much. It's so easy for little things to get blown out of proportion and turn into big things.
Is the reason you wouldn't manage walking around because you're still anaemic and it would tire you out? Or anxiety or something? Anyway, whatever the reason it doesn't make you a let down or a failure. Some things are just too much sometimes. The open evening is more for the student anyways rather than the parents. Plus it sounds like you have brought your kids up to be independent and intelligent enough to cope. Especially if your husband is there too.
Did you explain to him why you couldn't go? Because giving him a specific reason may help.
No Rowie, you haven't 'made him' depressed. Ok, so maybe the problems that you have might have put extra strain on him, but it is NOT your fault that he is depressed. And if he is in a mood then fine, leave him to his mood to get over it. I'm sure he will be fine soon enough. What's his job? Sorry I think you told me before, but I've forgotten now
Hopefully it won't be too late for the retake, I'm sure the school should be able to give you some leeway. There are retakes all the time, for every new term, so maybe she could get in at a later date. Is she year 12 now? Or going into year 12 next year?
Hang in there hun xx
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